OK with the destiny Vs free Will argument - Spawn you have already touched upon how I would solve that one. But first - what you say about there being no time in the higher dimensions, I am not sure if that is entirely it, its more that time has less meaning, and its only until you get the highest ultimate dimension that there is no time, whatsoever, nor any individuality etc. Well thats how I see it, and it helps answer this argument for me.
If, on the highest dimension, there is no time, then yes everything is done as its done, everything IS. So that is the "destiny" thing. But from our perspective, we still have to live life, and it is within the frame of our free will that these things happen - and if we say "oh its all destined, so whats the point?" and then spend all our time sitting inside waiting for destiny to appear well then.....lol.....so be it. So the two points are entirely congruent but at the same time, don't contradict free will.
The argument I find more difficult is deciding how the decision making process works. I mean, I know that ultimately our "soul" is formless and immense, but we live through the filter (mostly?) of our surface personalities, which are in a way the programs running in our brain (the hardwiring), but then if they are just programs then where the hell is free will there?? Can we make any decision which does not run through our brain? Is it then not all just the illusion of free will, since we are following the parameters of programmed personality form??? And what is the method through which we change? Can consciousness really exert that much influence past these silly bloody programs??!
Well OK, it doesn't keep me up at night, but it does concern me
