what to do with parents?

[soika]

i am reading a lot of  spiritual thing and u alot of Abraham-Hicks and low of attraction i am using affrimation and writing a lot of things
now my parents and family dont know what i am doing they read without i am knowing what i am writing(self help affrim and so) and  think i am need to see a  psychiatrist and they want to advice a  psychiatrist
 behind my back and invite someone to our home
so  how to deal with it? what is the best way? for time i just ignore that !!
what to do when people try to control you by action(like invite  psychiatrist)?
i am trying to figure out what to do

thanks

[Novice]

I'm assuming from your post you are a teenager (still living at home and going to school). If so, then you are a bit limited to what you can do. Keep in mind, though, your parents are concerned because they care. They aren't trying to dominate, just make sure you are safe and healthy.

From what you've written, I don't see anything harmful in what you're reading (looking at it from someone not interested in this stuff). If they do call a psychologist, your parents may be surprised by the result. Psychology is one of the bigger proponents (believers) of affirmations. As for hermetic concepts like the Law of Attraction, that's a bit different, but not by much.  I don't think any reputable psychologist will do or suggest anything based on this stuff.

Now, if your parents are deeply religious and called a priest/rabbi/whatever (not sure of your faith) then I would worry. But that doesn't sound like an issue for you as you hadn't mentioned it.

Overall, I wouldn't stress out about it. Maybe you should be proactive and discuss this with your parents before they call anyone. That might help them understand what you are thinking.

Lastly, if you are an adult and living on your own, there isn't much they can do. They have no legal claim of dependency on you...unless you live at home.

Hope this helps!

...and I really think talking to them first is the best bet. Many times things get blown out of proportion simply due to lack of communication.