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« Reply #45 on: May 19, 2010, 03:26:59 » |
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Dude, try your first relationship getting cheated on for the whole time (3 years, with actual people not astral characters) and then tell me your dealing with issues. I can tell you with full confidence that this girl will not be a long term issue for you unless you make it one. At the time you worry about losing her but when shes gone you'd be surprised how quickly the pain passes. Someday youre gonna look back and wish you didn't allow yourself to be stepped on like this, trust me, your not really losing anything when someone who hurts your feelings is out of your life.
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« Reply #46 on: May 19, 2010, 06:03:47 » |
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Dude, try your first relationship getting cheated on for the whole time (3 years, with actual people not astral characters) and then tell me your dealing with issues. I can tell you with full confidence that this girl will not be a long term issue for you unless you make it one. At the time you worry about losing her but when shes gone you'd be surprised how quickly the pain passes. Someday youre gonna look back and wish you didn't allow yourself to be stepped on like this, trust me, your not really losing anything when someone who hurts your feelings is out of your life.
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« Reply #47 on: May 19, 2010, 07:46:54 » |
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Love is a very very strong emotion. But do not make the direct link between love and her. Relationships are hard work, requiring agreements and respect between both parties; and requiring each individual to make sacrifices. Without these, a relationship will not work.. no matter how much you love somebody, it's not always enough. Even if you leave her or she leaves you, don't think that you can never love again, or cannot continue on living without her. You can and will find somebody who will adore you, respect you and love you as much as you love them. Somebody who is amazing and who makes your heart jump everytime you hear their voice. The person who would do anything for you.
I don't want to sound rude, but if she is going to other men(in other dimensions or not) then it sounds as though she is not satisfied with what she has with you.. this is not your fault. You sound like a very loving, emotional, caring person. But you cannot force somebody to feel or want to feel something she does not..
And It will be okay.
It might be hard, you may cry, you may be depressed.. but life will go on. The sun will become brighter; the days will become happier. You don't have to put yourself through this for somebody who is not worth your pain.
Don't say that you may as well not be alive - don't give her that kind of power over you. You are strong and you can do this. Everything will be okay.. it just takes time. Time to think and time to heal.. Why not take some time to yourself, get to know yourself inside and out. Take a trip, make some discoveries - visit the Grand Canyon; or Florida. Swim in the Ocean, dive with dolphins. Take a ride in a hot air balloon..
In the end, we are all really only bonded to ourselves. You have the power to overcome anything - we all do. We were born with it, the ability to heal any wound. We just need to remember this.. and everything will be okay.
*big hugs*
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« Reply #48 on: May 20, 2010, 12:38:49 » |
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I recently spoke to a Demonologist expert who tells me he believes this to be something completely different. He doesn't believe that she is AP'ing at all. When she was young she was exorcised of a demon several times and the Demonologist tells me what she is experiencing now could either be damage from the past exorcisms or possibly a demonic possession itself. He also believes she could even still be possessed. He also said its possible that an Incubus is feeding off her of sorts, appearing to her in the form of fictional characters to use her. And naturally, she would believe them to be the characters and not the demon. Is this possible? I am fully aware of the existance of demons, and this does seem to make a form of sense to me. Could it be? The people I speak to though her... could they be the demon? Or her imagination as a result of a damaged exorcism?
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« Reply #49 on: May 20, 2010, 13:23:21 » |
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why don't you just stop making things up
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« Reply #50 on: May 20, 2010, 13:52:37 » |
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why don't you just stop making things up I think I'll second that statement. ~Ryan |
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« Reply #51 on: May 20, 2010, 19:42:51 » |
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Is this thread still happening?
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« Reply #52 on: May 20, 2010, 22:50:10 » |
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Is this thread still happening?
Apparently. Let's get some shoes! |
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« Reply #53 on: May 21, 2010, 00:05:49 » |
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monogamy is over-rated.
it doesn't really make sense either.
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« Reply #54 on: May 21, 2010, 05:29:37 » |
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I wonder if anyone ever considered the possibility of a slightly smarter troll  having had its heyday around here The whole thread is absurd. Just try to visualize the relationship....see. Either he is messing with you or he is severely damaged goods, with a demonic girlfriend (see the head spinning around  ) or he is 12 and just learned a bunch of new words. Noone is that dumb. It seems to me he is just keeping the thread alive so he has something to do....fictional friends he can talk to about a fictional problem. Just my 2 cents If you are for real ...well  |
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« Reply #55 on: May 21, 2010, 06:55:12 » |
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I recently spoke to a Demonologist expert who tells me he believes this to be something completely different. He doesn't believe that she is AP'ing at all. When she was young she was exorcised of a demon several times and the Demonologist tells me what she is experiencing now could either be damage from the past exorcisms or possibly a demonic possession itself. He also believes she could even still be possessed. He also said its possible that an Incubus is feeding off her of sorts, appearing to her in the form of fictional characters to use her. And naturally, she would believe them to be the characters and not the demon. Is this possible? I am fully aware of the existance of demons, and this does seem to make a form of sense to me. Could it be? The people I speak to though her... could they be the demon? Or her imagination as a result of a damaged exorcism?
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« Reply #56 on: May 21, 2010, 12:27:28 » |
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I wonder if anyone ever considered the possibility of a slightly smarter troll having had its heyday around here The whole thread is absurd. Just try to visualize the relationship....see. Either he is messing with you or he is severely damaged goods, with a demonic girlfriend (see the head spinning around ) or he is 12 and just learned a bunch of new words. Noone is that dumb. It seems to me he is just keeping the thread alive so he has something to do....fictional friends he can talk to about a fictional problem. Just my 2 cents If you are for real ...well A smarter troll? Nahhhh! I think some folks just get off on the attention and seeings how we live in a over the board PC world,..well, just best to not feed the trolls in my opinion. |
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« Reply #57 on: May 21, 2010, 13:49:00 » |
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I wonder if anyone ever considered the possibility of a slightly smarter troll having had its heyday around here The whole thread is absurd. Just try to visualize the relationship....see. Either he is messing with you or he is severely damaged goods, with a demonic girlfriend (see the head spinning around ) or he is 12 and just learned a bunch of new words. Noone is that dumb. It seems to me he is just keeping the thread alive so he has something to do....fictional friends he can talk to about a fictional problem. Just my 2 cents If you are for real ...well Complete with pea soup vomit? Hmmm... definitely. LOL ~Ryan |
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« Reply #58 on: May 21, 2010, 17:01:10 » |
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Apparently.
Let's get some shoes!
I'm wearing BOOTS. |
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« Reply #59 on: May 21, 2010, 17:35:07 » |
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Shoes.
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Ay Bendito! And yes, I'm a girl. |
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