I was cutting my soul from my body?

[astraladdict]

You know how you get a thought and than immediatly think " no no no, i don't think that, no" Don't do that. Listen to those thoughts. That's thinking with your head. Than close your eyes and feel your heart, what does that say? You are with each other for a reason. She needs you mate. Be patient, changing a mindset won't happen over night. Keep the love for her in your heart. And don't push anything, especially when it comes to women.

~astraladdict

[HiRes]

as for leaving her? If I was to leave her, some external force would have to be there. AND it would not happen, until she could maintain herself without me.. be happy without me in her life, as I cannot be everything she almost demands of me.

[AJDIN]

opposites attract

Opposites don't attract in this situation, in the way your thinking...

Most of the time, if not all the time the the guy feels bad for the girl because of her emotional state and has a sense of he needs to help her

Usually girls will cause of sorts of hell that will mentally and emotionally control you to the way she wants it by crying, or giving the silent treatment or with holding sex, jealousy plots, purposely hurting your feelings

How do you think girls like this got by at the start of time? Over-powered men?

They work on an emotional level and guys are on the logical level


Not her fault or yours, might be some past daddy issues, or problems in the family

Either way if your having problems on a constant basis with your girl i would see the relationship for what it REALLY is and grow a pair and brake it off before
you get hurt

But if i am jumping to conclusions seeing as i don't know you or your girlfriend, i apologize !

Just giving some friendly insight  

Writting this, i know you wont take my advice ... most dont until they go through what i once went through in an unhealthy relationship and then they will think "Ohhhhh... now i get it"

[AJDIN]

as for leaving her? If I was to leave her, some external force would have to be there. AND it would not happen, until she could maintain herself without me.. be happy without me in her life, as I cannot be everything she almost demands of me.

I try to follow my heart.. That is the main reason I am still with her. >.> If she would just be more positive about ANYTHING I would not have a problem being with her.. I have tried and tried and tried to get her to just sit and put a positive mindset about things, yet she refuses..
So in my heart, I dont want to leave her because I want to make a positive impact on her.. but part of my heart thinks it will never happen. Soo I dont know v.v;

"almost demands of me"

Now i know i'm on the right track

If your un-happy, leave

You can't change someone that doesn't want to be changed, she needs to help herself ... or a professional

trust me you CAN'T change her! and you trying will anger her even more

[HiRes]

Now i know i'm on the right track

If your un-happy, leave

You can't change someone that doesn't want to be changed, she needs to help herself ... or a professional

trust me you CAN'T change her! and you trying will anger her even more

Haha.. its funny cause she tried to emotionally have her way.. but I used those emotions against her.. and ended up making her leave me XD
I still preach to her the way to true happiness.. Haha
But no, I dont care that much to get hurt.. So it doesnt matter if I stay with her, as I do not need a girl in my life to be happy