shared dreams?

[Mustardseed]

Hi Wisp and all
Recently I have been working on WILDs and its going good, however I am having some problem understanding the nature and experience. It seems that the dreams I enter are my own. Sort of a creation. I may be dreaming of someone while they are awake and therefore it would not be a shared dream. However sometimes it seems that some of the people I meet are very much more real than others. It seems that they have entered MY dreams. Who are they and why do they do that?
If it is possible to share dreams , and it seems plausible, then certain conditions must exist first, ( first one being that both should be asleep [])

What are thise conditions.? I also asked RB what to do in my Lucid dreams, and was counselled to think in ways of healing , praying for world peace etc, however since my dreas are my creations how about using them to work through issues. Is that possible being Lucid?

Regards MS

[wisp]

Hi Mustardseed,
This is a good subject, and some very good questions. The people in dreams is something I look at closely. This is very challenging. I had a couple of dream people who have appeared in dreams before, show up again recently. The reason I'm so interested in these two repeaters is that my life took an odd and rough turn since they showed up. I've been thinking of posting a description of these two dreams with these two in it. One of them was seen while I was waking up in the middle of the night. The other was in a regular dream,the woman said something that could be connected to what I was yet to find out in my waking life.Either or both could be my aspect, I'm just not sure yet. I'm still trying to fit the pieces together. The popular other opinions is that they are spirit guides or angels.

It seems to be quite rare to connect a person in your dreams with another person, but why not? Anything is possible. By recording (and remembering dreams) I pay attention to waking life events that may connect with someone I have dreamed about.

Here is a link on mutual dreaming. I read it a long time ago.I need to read it again.

http://members.aol.com/dreampsi/archive/mutualdreaming.html
 

quote:What are thise conditions.? I also asked RB what to do in my Lucid dreams, and was counselled to think in ways of healing , praying for world peace etc, however since my dreas are my creations how about using them to work through issues. Is that possible being Lucid?

I'm not aware of any conditions. I don't see anything wrong searching with the intention of self improvement.I think anything is possible, not restricted to lucid, or even the fact the other person may not be sleeping, if that's what you mean, MS. People have waking visions,synchronicity,and even moments of subconscious activity in waking time, why put a restriction on whether anyone is physically sleeping?

[galacticsurfer]

I had a dream a couple days ago that my wife said to me if it were not for me and the kids she would have gotten a visa and made a world trip. I told her about this dream the next day and she said amazed "that is exactly what I was thinking". Unfortunately she does not write down her dreams but I suspect that when I dream with her in it that she could really be in it. It would therefore seem to be the best thing to do to try to share dreams with one's spouse as the emotional ties and interests are just so close and you could agree on it so much easier without making any complications in relationships and check the facts later upon waking up. Hey this could even improve the marriage love life considerably![]

[Blissful]

Originally posted by wisp

It seems to be quite rare to connect a person in your dreams with another person, but why not? Anything is possible. By recording (and remembering dreams) I pay attention to waking life events that may connect with someone I have dreamed about.

Hey Wisp:
Oh my goodness, that is so helpful.  I record 90% of my dreams and YES, some waking life events have connected with my dream events (and they involve the person I think I'm dream sharing with).

Incredible.  So simple how come I didn't think of that.  

Now, as for me being rare, well yes that's possible (I say that with a sense of humor).

Thanks for the thought and the website.

Blissful

[fisherman32]

Hi Blissful

It does sound strange, but sometimes truth can be much stranger than fiction. If two people are connected at a very close level...maybe family, spouse, soulmate or whatever-it can happen (more than just once by coincidence).

My advice is...if you identify that you are doing this, make sure the other person is open to dreams and "unnatural connections". If not...you might just freak them right out![]

[thelou]

Hi Blissful,

You and others have talked about OOBE and OBE.  You just talked about both in the same paragraph.  At first I thought it was just two different ways to say the same thing.  You know, tomato, tamato?  Is there a difference between OOBE and OBE?  What does the second “O” stand for?

Thanks,

thelou

[Blissful]

quote:Originally posted by thelou

Hi Blissful,

You and others have talked about OOBE and OBE.  You just talked about both in the same paragraph.  At first I thought it was just two different ways to say the same thing.  You know, tomato, tamato?  Is there a difference between OOBE and OBE?  What does the second “O” stand for?

Thanks,

thelou

Thelou, it's the same thing (oobe and obe) it's just a typo on my part.

And yes, one has to be EXTREMELY careful when sharing these things cause you can freak someone out!!  I'll be cool and wait to see if the "sign" are there before speaking.  

Blissful

[fisherman32]

Have you tried to contact this person using telepathy (calling their name)?

Have you ever received a telepathic message? If so, how did this message appear to you?  

Why don't your use you lucid dreaming or telepathy to get them to the website? That would be a good sign...wouldn't it?

[Blissful]

quote:Originally posted by fisherman32

Have you tried to contact this person using telepathy (calling their name)?

Have you ever received a telepathic message? If so, how did this message appear to you?  

Why don't your use you lucid dreaming or telepathy to get them to the website? That would be a good sign...wouldn't it?

No, I'm only under the suspicion of dream sharing at this point.  When I had my first WILD I tried to reach him but my excitement woke me up. I have been lucid but am trying to use that time for other things.  I will eventually do that though.  I'm trying to take this adventure slowly.

Blissful

[fisherman32]

Blissful,

This may sound goofy to you, but you have the strongest psi vibe that I have yet to pick up on. I really don't think you realize what you have yet. I have nothing to quantify that statement, but I am usually a pretty good judge of talent. If your co-worker is your "Soul Mate/Friend" he will have the same level of talent. You would make quite the couple! lol

Make sure you keep your dreams to yourself so you can find out for sure.

Good luck with your adventure!

[wisp]

galactisurfer,
Excellent! You give me fresh hope that there are great relationships out there. [] That's the way it should be.

Blissful,
Glad I could be of some help. []

Mustardseed,
If it means anything, I haven't remembered a dream since the 15th of last month (and barely anything then). I'm losing something.But again, I'm gaining something too.I've been dealing with a mysterious arm pain problem. I'm on the road to cure. It seems it must be a totally unconscious healing. It didn't take a turn for the better until I said a prayer. I'm getting my confidence back.And...I'm beginning to fear my dreams a bit. I had a couple of scary ones (the last two)! Hope things are going well for you, don't be a stranger.[]

[kiauma]

http://www.afterlife-knowledge.com/real.html

[tro-flow]

Hey people. This might be long, but I think it's cool.

I posted a reply in the topic about flying in a lucid dream. I told about my experience with a friend. We were in the same dream, and both remembered it. I am sure that I was not in my own room, and neither was he. When I think of the place, it seemed to be above a park in the village I live. Some kind of watercolored and orange sphere, that stood for our contact and everything we communicated about. I know this cause, inside of that sphere, the energy was so thick that I only had to focus on my second chakra, the center, just a little and I would levitate my body. My friend, Jordan, was watching closely and understood what I was showing him by feeling what I felt. We communicated by feeling. Like the way the moment feels when you completely understand someone and you say something exactly together.
Then Jordan also knew how to fly in his dreams. But the energy in this world was so thick that I lost focus of this world and got a little in to nightmarestate cause I got scared cause I thought I was breathing in water. I remember very clearly that the more I got scared, the more I got pushed out of the sphere. Untill eventually I noticed myself being sucked into my own dreamworld, which felt like waking up. My own world more of a red sphere, as if it was the aura of my rootchakra. I really saw myself laying in bed and it was as if I was dreaming so clear, that I was awake and there was just nothing to dream about. And then I woke up. Remembering my dream very clearly.

The next day I was talking to Jordan on the messenger, and just told me he had the weirdest dream, which felt like I was really in it. You were teaching me how to fly he said. And I was like yeah, and I immediately understood the whole thing. So I tald him he was wearing a darkred shirt. Well anyway everything we saw matched. He even told me that I was suddenly gone.

It was no coincedence that we met in our dream, because we had been together the whole evenening before. We had been out, danced, drank and relaxed, so we practically felt the same way.

I believe the teaching how to fly had something to do with showing my friend in reality something he never understood, a way of relaxed. That's what I think that flying symbolises. Being able to relax or feel free in somekind of situation.

Another thing that I was think of was that by doing the same thing, doing something fun, made us completely process and forget the daily issues you normally dream about. Which I have found to be stored in the rootchakra. Obviously we had nothing more to dream about, so our consciousness landed in the second chakra, the lower dan tien. Which is orange, just like the energy in shared world.

Okay sorry it's so long, but I just had to completely tell.
Tell me what U think.

[wisp]

Interesting, tro-flow. The base or root chakra is known to be connected with earth and possibly earth connections.Emotions seem to play a role in connections with others as well.

I like your ideas. It's challenging when moving onto the next chakra, for me anyway.[]

[tro-flow]

Very challenging.

I found out that the root charka is like our lightningconductor. It passes any kind of tension, any not rhythmic, or painfull vibrations on to the earth.
In plants the root chakra lies just beneath the surface. Atleast that's what I see when 'look' at the chakra's of plants. Only we have extension to it, which are those channels in the legs.
But what would you think would happen if you were to enter the dreamworld of the realitychakra, the 6th. Would you be be some kind of Neo? Or would that be the crown, the 7th. Or would you then be a god?