3rd chakra bothering me

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Blaaaah blaaaah - deleted my original post.  I was venting... i suppose.

So instead...
Why is it that your feelings are usually located at the solar plexus.  I.e gut feelings.
In relationships when your worried about losing someone(discomfort in the gut) or even desiring someone (butterflys in the stomach).
-Not strictly about relationships, however more along the lines of strong emotions - which you can define yourself.
What do those feelings mean? Do they really have to do with the 3rd chakra? How does this influence your life - i.e the way you act or even how you attract something towards you?
Have any story about how these feelings shaped something in your life for better or worse?

Personally, when I feel anything intense in my gut I have deep thoughts about the situation - i.e deep thoughts about being a friend.  What all that means.  What people mean and what it means to feel/be connected to them.  Why we choose certain people. How it has shaped our lives.  The beauty of expressing emotions and ideas to people so they may understand ourselves, because they care on some level about who/what we are.  If you think about it we see hundreds of random people and out of all them we have chosen each other.  How amazing all those formless people(to us) simply disappear, but as friends inside we have said "I like you...I dont want you to disappear, become a part of me".  Its interesting to see how we have created thoughts about these people and developed emotions. I honestly cried over the beauty of meeting some people.
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A heavily watered down verson of what I experienced.  What I felt at the time was intense.  I could'av been overacting...still I'd have it no other way its just how it happened.

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Edit- changed original post... post lost its purpose.

So...  blah blah blah.