Dreadfully sorry for the delay everyone, It has been an emotionally tiresome period in my house. My Dad came to stay with us while my Mom was away on a business trip and lets just say it wasn't pleasant time. The reason I haven't posted is because Dad is a hardcore Christian type of guy and hates these sort of topics.

Anyway enough of the boohoos, on with the show!
To me magic is making what you want happen and that can be pretty much anything, however I do believe that you can't break the laws of the universe, but you can make it seem so. Being a wizard means to be a creator of reality.
I think something connected to magic is changing the way you look at life. I have a friend that thinks god and satan "speak" to him, though not audiable but by "showing" him things, just everday things but with some message in it(details aren't important). I have actually experienced a few messages with him and the only way I could understand is if he points it out.
He says he also hears messages in music, but they are different from god/satan messages(universe speaking). I personally experienced one recently and 'saw' it.
I said "I have to go"
*he just finished picking a random song as i finish my line*
Then few seconds later... bam the lyrics go "you don't have to go".
I went home anyways ignoring it... as I get home I realize I dont have my key and I'm wating there for like an hour until my dad returns. I felt strange ignoring it, the universe was speaking to me...
So how does that relate to 'magic'? Well, songs (particularly rap/ r and b) are like his way of hearing from the universe, actually I think the term is "medium" and messages/answers are spoken thru music to him, as for me only when I'm with him I notice this.
Here is an example of a spell- My brother told me about this and I'm pretty sure its from the book called 'Conversations with God'.
Its called the "I want" spell and its negative. When you say you want something your spell has been cast, so that is what you get a 'I want'. Want is the absence of something. Personally think about this a see how it effects you, maybe start changing 'I want' into being thankful for what you have " I am thankful for having enough food today" or " I am happy that I have enough money today". Since many people here are for having astral projections, lucid dreams and all that, change the 'I want' to I'll have a 'insert' tonight. In matter of fact when I was telling a friend about this, he told me " when you told me I'll have a lucid dream I did"(he was having a hard time going lucid and I was trying to help him out).
Well I'm not sure. It is an interesting idea, but I wont rule out coincidence. I have had a similar experiences with music but I would call it coincidence rather then magic but you could be right.
There are lots of books on magic, like the one I have said earlier Conversations with God, but another one is called The Four Agreements and I'll list them here-
Be Impeccable With Your Word , Don't Take Anything Personally ,Don't Make Assumptions and Always Do Your Best . If your not interested in getting the book some people have written reviews on it and you can get a better understanding that way. A book doesn't have to be specifically about "magic" it just has to do with how you can shape your reality and as I said "Being a wizard means to be a creator of reality".
Sounds more like self help books but if you have some links I'd be willing to take a look.
and to CFTraveler
Some belief systems don't separate the source and the collective unconscious, they're different ways of categorizing what is a whole. Most mystically minded people come close to this worldview one way or the other.
Then we would have to have some direct connection to "The Source" in order to change reality.
And Then that would rule out that we change reality, To suggest that a divine creator can be manipulated by its creation is
blasphemy on some level
When I studied anthropology, I read many accounts of anthropologists who went to study indigenous cultures and were very sceptical of their sympathetic religions, and after living with them for some years changed their understanding of reality. Others remained sceptical but admitted that magic seemed to work, just couldn't figure out how. That's the only example I know that I would come close to trusting.
Im beginning to think that magic is a manifestation of desire mixed with a strong sense of belief because certainly all religions have preformed a miracle or two.
what I still am eager to know is the mechanics of the thing.
You guys have suggested the possibility of the collective unconscious or the "source" being the creators of reality. You have suggested that
they are one and the same. I do not think we were created by a sentient being because of the fact in order to consciously practice magic we would have to reach through the "source" to achieve our desires. It would make the source something of a cosmic whore and as a sentient being i dint think it would appreciate being used.
So that leaves the possibility of the collective unconscious being the source of reality and magic. Of that I require more thinking time.