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[lucidguy]

I posted a similar thread ages ago and for some reason forgot about this forum. I have still been waking up in my old house where I lived in for 15 years and still don't know what is going on, my room is different and not the same as it was when I slept there but I feel it is my "old room".

I suffer from awareness during sleep paralysis but when I wake up in my old room I can move. Then I think "Oh no I'm going to have sleep paralysis" and it comes on. I have an OBE to escape it and end up trying to escape my house.

I've also started having dreams set in that house that start normal and are set in that house, then I remember the basement has a Ghost in it. So I try to run away. When I realize the basement is haunted the dream characters usually just leave. Sometimes I can float away but at other times the ghost pulls me back and I know it will soon get me... Are they OBE dreams? How do I stop having them? I had a dream where I blew up that house and thought the Ghost wouldn't bother me.

But  don't want to have any more dreams set in my old house. Or OBE's, or whatever they are.

Also sometimes I have an OBE in a room I feel it it is my new room but the angles are wrong and when I look outside the view is different. In fact I can sometimes control the view I see. Is that more of a lucid dream?

Any advice would be appreciated.

I wish I didn't forget about this forum, I had so many OBE's that I could have discussed with you guys. Oh well, next time.

[personalreality]

it sounds like you're being confronted by your own subconscious issues.

you might spend some time going inwards (meditation) and looking at yourself, dealing with some of your issues (which we all have many of).

it might help.

you might also work on tempering your mind some more, gaining more control of your awareness and where it is directed.

[NoY]

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[lucidguy]

it sounds like you're being confronted by your own subconscious issues.

you might spend some time going inwards (meditation) and looking at yourself, dealing with some of your issues (which we all have many of).

it might help.

you might also work on tempering your mind some more, gaining more control of your awareness and where it is directed.

You mean like what issues I had with my old house? So what are they? Dreams? Lucid dreams?

[Greytraveller]

Hallo lucidguy and welcome

It seems like these experiences are very emotional for you.
One suggestion concerns the ghost. Most ghosts are not evil or malevolent. So you probably need Not fear this ghost (unless it has attacked you on a previous occasion). The next time you encounter this ghost (whether in an OBE or a dream) Don't try to escape it. Instead try to confront it in a firm but non-threatening manner. Ask it what it is doing there and what it wants. Tell it to leave you alone. Ask it if it knows that it is dead. Etc. In doing so you may not make friends with it but that should stop it from bothering you in the future.

Regards
Grey

[Xanth]

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[AstralBlogger]

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