questions about my latest obe?

[slipknot0129]

there was a star outside that i looked at but i thought it was so far away that i wouldnt know if it was scary or not. is it normal to be scared of going into outer space for the first time?

when feeling your eyelids when out of body is it suppose to feel you only have one?

does this confirm my obe was a true obe?-i had to struggle to get out of my body kind of like velcro.

when i was laying on my body i didnt see no silver cord where is it at?

do my spontaneous obe's happen when i get sleep paralysis or is it something else on how i get out of my body?

the more spontaneous obe's i have will i be able to conquer the fear of going far and staying longer out of my body?

why do i always feel lonely in most of my obe's?

[Greytraveller]

Slipknot

Fear of the unknown is always a factor. Don't be too concerned about that. Anyway a little caution is usually a good thing.
The velcro feeling is common. Not all OBEs are easy, sometimes it takes a lot of effort to make the separation to go OOB.
Most people Do Not see a silver cord. The silver cord is only seen in about 3% or 4% of all OBEs.
The more OBEs that you have the easier it should be to go farther and stay out longer. That is generally true, (it was for me anyhow) and probably will be for you as well.
You are learning the paradox of OBEs -- the more that you OBE the more questions that need to be answered. Eventually though, he should learn answers to some of the big questions.

Grey