dual dreaming with someone else? Possible semi conscious AP?

[mrrandom2010]

So last night I was going through my meditative techniques and recently I've started off by saying "I will wake up in my dream" around 5 times before I start trying to do it.

I don't know if this had any effect on what happened but my girlfriend and I had the same dream. I'll go into as much detail as possible.

I got a call from her this morning and I greeted her with the normal "Morning baby" and followed up with, "I had a dream that you slept over at my house." She replied with "I had a dream I woke up at your house."

So I started thinking, in my dream the first time I saw her was me getting out of the shower and getting dressed. She woke up with her head north and she was facing me. She said to me "I knew you were a cute boy" then the dream went on without her because she randomly disappeared from it.

I was asking her questions in the physical realm like "what did you say when you woke up" and "what way were you facing"

ALL OF THESE SHE GOT RIGHT. It freaked me out enough to where I had to text Ryan1337 to see what he thought. He didn't know what to think, so now I'm asking you guys. Has this ever happened to you? If so, is there a term for it?

Any help is appreciated

TS

[catmeow]

Hi, forgive me if I haven't quite got it right, but it sounds like you both shared, at least in part, a dream in which you got up and went to the shower.  Now this could easily just be coincidence, but it could also be a simple shared dream. The possible explanations are:

1. Coincidence
2. Two people dreaming in their own private dream environment but sharing information using ESP, and in this way having similar dreams
3. Two people having a shared experiences in a shared but private dream environment
4. Two people having an actual public shared experiences in a public concensus environment

Substitute the word "astral" for "dream" if you like.

I have had such shared dreams and they have been identical in all respects when I compared notes with the other party.  So in my case at least I think it was either 3 or 4.

What you should do is to try to repeat the experience. Next time you are Lucid/Astral/OBE actually go to your gf's house, walk in through say the front door and up to her bedroom. If she isn't already up and about, try to coax her out of bed and then have some sort of shared adventure.  If you do this with sufficient eagerness and intent there is a fair chance that she will remember it as either a slightly weird dream or she might recollect the whole thing for what it was. Give it a try.  If you succeed, then you will answer your own question!

[mrrandom2010]

If I could OBE at least once, I would totally try that. I'm still working on an OBE. I'm stoked for when it happens though

Thanks for the feedback,

TS