I just recently had my first concious Obe. I have been reading about them recently and although I have not tried to project through medication, I found the perfect oppurtunty last night when in a semi concious almost sleep paralized statE. I had a similar issue with seeing and I'd like to describe my experience.
I let my body go limp, most noticible were my facial muscles going dead so to speak. I allowed my other self to float out. I wanted to some how prove to myself that it was real by looking down at my body and so as I left my physical self, I begun to rotate and hover above my bed. When I looked down, what I saw was mostly a haze. I could see the shape of my body and the red color of my blanket but nothing sharp. I also felt I was starting to become self concious of my body again as If flickering between my concious self and
my astral body.
I'm convinced this wasn't a dream as I used intention to make it happen. I felt almost completely concious before trying it. I have always been a closet believer of his stuff. Since I have been very young, I have had th ability to read people in the non psychic sense. Like knowing how and what people are feeling and sensing the natural energy our bodies emmenate both casually, sexually, and otherwize.
I'd like to learn more and eventually work towards controllig my obe and achieving astral projection throuh mediation. If anyone has any advice and or feedback, I would greatly appreciate it.
One last comment: leaving my body felt pleasent but ironically not that different from what one would imagine feeling when freefalling, or loosing too much blood. Sorry to be morbid, but I understand how people have reservations about it.
I think what you mentioned about needing a destination first is key.