I know what you meant.

lol
Well you could always create a thought form

"And you know the best about all of it? I can have any kind of sex i want"
- Waking Life
I think that movie has many great point and not just about this topic

I don't need a thought form. People in my dreams seem to be quite happy to oblige where sex is concerned... of course some of them might be a though form, but more often or not, they are people who I know in real-life, which in a twisted kind of way is scary... not that I'm twisted or perverted lol, I'm not.