Astral Sex

[personalreality]

besides, who are we to dictate anyone's sex life?

[Astir]

Old thread...
Pertinent question.

Is it possible to be having sex with someone you know on the astral and not be fully aware of it later...if say, you have Astral Alzheimers as I do?  I get feelings that I've done things.  Fractured pieces always flash back to me once I am awake...not enough to know for sure.  And I'm not about to ask this person if I am doing...what I think I am doing. 

[Xanth]

I'll just say that it's "possible".
But, you'll never know unless you ask. 

You could just be "remembering" flashes of dreams which are just that... unconscious projections with subconsciously created people who don't really exist.

[Astir]

I never have sex dreams, because I always decline every proposition.  It's weird, though brief, what I can recall most with these instances is my feeling a profoundly deep love.  I also have zero recall on the initiations or the endings.  All of my memories take place in the midst.  The place is always the same.

[Astir]

I can't prod it now.
He mentioned it first...Stunned, I blurted that I never remembered the astral very well.  Still, it could also be an amazing coincidence, where we have the same experiences so far on a similar time line with completely different astral partners.  As he described his own accounts I felt myself rapidly begin to remember my own.

I remember the place most.  It's like a tomb, with walls so black I'm not sure anything even surrounds us except space, but there is one large, open window.  The window is always behind him so he's only a silhouette. a warm light pours through.  I have tried to focus on his face to see his eyes...everything either fades with the warm glow or else I close my own eyes.  The contrast between the light and the dark is so striking, besides the intense waves of emotion, that part is easiest to remember.  Though I'd say I remember maybe the equivalent of five or six seconds...broken apart.

[3toedsloth]

In response to the discussion as to whether astral sex should be considered 'cheating':

I project, and my wife is still working on it. But we've both read quite a bit on the subject and both agree that astral sex would be no different than sex in a dream (albeit a lucid one). That being the case, we really wouldn't consider it cheating at all. In fact, we encourage each other to experience as much as possible in the 'astral' and are eager to tell each other of our experiences.

I wouldn't say that your astral self has no bearing on your physical self, but to limit your experience in the astral seems absurd to me.

[VampLena]

Im a single, overworked woman and who is just starting to phase, though I have not yet astral projected i feel closer and closer every day to it. So Im wondering if lesbianism exists on the astral plane? I am one and I certainly only want to attract female entities. Also an earlier question about if its possible to have astral sex with higher beings like "Goddesses" ? How about some help for us singles

Still Im curious, do you perceive Astral Sex like dream sex or when you project your astral bodies eyes are opened and you see things nearly as clearly as you see when awake? Admittedly, Im rather interested in this and find myself glad I somehow have awoken spiritually that Im on the verge of projecting.

[Xanth]

Im a single, overworked woman and who is just starting to phase, though I have not yet astral projected i feel closer and closer every day to it. So Im wondering if lesbianism exists on the astral plane? I am one and I certainly only want to attract female entities. Also an earlier question about if its possible to have astral sex with higher beings like "Goddesses" ? How about some help for us singles

Still Im curious, do you perceive Astral Sex like dream sex or when you project your astral bodies eyes are opened and you see things nearly as clearly as you see when awake? Admittedly, Im rather interested in this and find myself glad I somehow have awoken spiritually that Im on the verge of projecting.

Put it this way... in an existence where you're simply "consciousness"... what is "gender"?
Gender is your physical body identification.  In the non-physical you have no physical body.

You simply "are". 

[VampLena]

Put it this way... in an existence where you're simply "consciousness"... what is "gender"?
Gender is your physical body identification.  In the non-physical you have no physical body.

You simply "are". 

That really opens the door to some interesting explorations in the planes. Why do you hear alot about bodies and people taking forms and shapeshifting in the astral plane if you become just energy?

[Magic_Love]

Iäve had sex in lucid dreams which are very intense, I feel... but my lates astral experience I had not too long ago, which is a higher astral realm but still physicality or maybe the physicality was created just for me... I don't know... but anyways...

A) This man there, we first spoke, telepathicly and I heard him clear as day in my head, and he showed me things, it felt as if we were with each other for hours.

B) And then by the end of it he asked me how far I wanted to take this and I answered him in a question like, how far are you willing to go. *Naughty me* This ended up with us having sex, which I wanted. He seemed to really enjoy it, me too but I kept bouncing back and forward in councsiousnes.

I do not know this man but I think I might know who he was, but, this is where it gets tricky for me (I still haven't gotten this question answered)

All i felt was love, from me and everywhere else, I just know this was somewhere higher.
But I could not see this mans face, as if he was blocking me from seeing him, but at the same time I knew all along who he was while I was there. He asked me if I wanted to have sex, and I wanted it. And during sex when I moved up towards his face I think he was very... "relaxed" and I happened to see half his face almost up to his nose which just confirmed to me who he was... is...

This was when i began bouncing back and forward in consiousnes, my guess is I got excited...

I want to know if higher realms can be manipulated and/or lower entites can project themselves as someone else and inflict those emotions on to for example me and mimic a higher realm...?

This person have entered my lucid dreams at 2 times before, all of which this year. ONLY.

I am open to spirits and all these things so if they could come in astral form into my lucid dream would not surprise me.

any thoughts?

[Amorda]

So what does astral sex feel like, exactly? Can someone give me a clean description? I'm curious how it differs from dream sex. Or is it the same sort of tingly feeling?

[Xanth]

Some people might disagree with me, but astral sex can be experienced here in the physical as well.

If you've ever been so completely in Love with someone else, that they make you feel all warm and tingly inside.  You and this person mix on a different level... so much so that your energies become one beating, pulsing heart bursting with Love.

It's not "sex" as we know it.  Physical sex, as we know it isn't Love... it's not making love, it's just sex.  It's purpose, beyond making yourself and another person feel good, is procreation.  Of course, the act can include this 'different level' though.  The level of sharing all that you are with someone else, but it's definitely not limited to this act.

Making Love is something you do 24/7 with the person you share your life with.  You share your life... your heart... your consciousness... your Love.  You share everything with someone else with absolutely no fear what-so-ever.  It's not even limited by just a single person, although it might not be as strong with others, but it's still something that comes from the same level.

This is Making Love... this is Astral "Love".  This is accepting everything as it is, and giving everything you have to give. 

This is how it feels.  It's not something you 'do'... it's something you 'are'.  What I've described above is also what "astral sex" is and feels like... the merging of two.

[Amorda]

Some people might disagree with me, but astral sex can be experienced here in the physical as well.

If you've ever been so completely in Love with someone else, that they make you feel all warm and tingly inside.  You and this person mix on a different level... so much so that your energies become one beating, pulsing heart bursting with Love.

It's not "sex" as we know it.  Physical sex, as we know it isn't Love... it's not making love, it's just sex.  It's purpose, beyond making yourself and another person feel good, is procreation.  Of course, the act can include this 'different level' though.  The level of sharing all that you are with someone else, but it's definitely not limited to this act.



Making Love is something you do 24/7 with the person you share your life with.  You share your life... your heart... your consciousness... your Love.  You share everything with someone else with absolutely no fear what-so-ever.  It's not even limited by just a single person, although it might not be as strong with others, but it's still something that comes from the same level.

This is Making Love... this is Astral "Love".  This is accepting everything as it is, and giving everything you have to give. 

This is how it feels.  It's not something you 'do'... it's something you 'are'.  What I've described above is also what "astral sex" is and feels like... the merging of two.

Xanth,

First off, thank you for such a lovely description. You are always so helpful. And I can not agree more with the making love aspect. True love. Sharing everything you are without fear or ego. I don't truly know if I have ever felt this intense warm tingly love in which the two energies become one. But, I sounds amazing. Maybe I just haven't met that person yet. Or maybe that connection just isn't developed yet in this point in time. But I feel like I am on the right path. Thank you again for your response.

[Bedeekin]

I must be doing something different.

The more I read about 'Astral Sex'... the more I realise this. 

I already have the physical part Xanth... I've been with Kathryn for 23 years. I say 'physical part' in the broadest term. You are describing pure unconditional 'love' for another being. It can't be actually put in words... so I'm not going to try.

[Bedeekin]

Astral Sex is nothing but totally different... to me... compared to my physical reality sex.

I'm not disagreeing with you by the way Xanth... I just have a different experience of it.

Couldn't re-edit my post by the way... had to double post.