my body, emotions, & mind have been taking a beating from life

[son of light]

my body, emotions, & mind have been taking a beating from life since birth.  I am in a bad way.  I have had the worst luck, its like supernatural.   To say people just don't take kindly to me would be the hugest understatement; its unbelievable.  I also need to sell my home.

Any help is appreciated.  Thanks!

[Zephyrus]

Whatever caused such condition - your choices or your surroundings... don't give up! Things do change, if we let them. It's good to have your friends and family close when the time is hard.

[alchemist]

It's curious that you say "It's almost supernatural"

When I look back over my life and consider all the hardships I've had to face, I can see now how these issues have benefitted my spiritual growth. Another way of facing your life's woes is to consider them challenges / obstacles that have been placed in front of you (by your soul and others) in your current physical life. If you seem to be having the same bad luck, perhaps a look inward at the growth opportunities you may have missed from these problems.

I have found that if I've missed the opportunity to learn a certain ability by certain hardships placed in front of me, I tend to have similar hardships occur again (presumably, until I got the "message")

If one looks at these challenges as growth opportunities and really thinks hard about how they have dealt with those kind of things in the past, it's almost like you can see a pattern emerging. I'm not making light of your predicament, please understand but you only really have two options when faced with hardship.

1: Try to avoid it and hope it goes away.

2: Try to look 'beneath the problem' as to what personal growth can you experience so you can perhaps turn it around into
    a kind of 'positive.'

S**T is still going to happen whatever choice you pick so why not get some 'value' from it when it strikes?

I know this may not help make you feel better right now, but it might be something that you mull over for a while?

I know its hard to try to make something negative into constructive when you are feeling down but its only through adversity and the way we face it that we 'grow'. (I've just been reminded of the phrase "That which does not kill you, makes you stronger")

*** Love and Light sent your way ***

[semisentient]

Yes, hang in there!

I feel like some things in my life have been unreasonably difficult ever since I was born. I've almost felt sort of doomed... lol. Sometimes I feel like a weakling or like I belong on another planet. So you know... our situations may be very different, but please know that you aren't alone!

When it comes to people, I don't really get along very well in anything business related (or in forced social situations). Often it can be very hard for me to approach some things, like customers in a work environment, or things that are important financially for my household (things that deal with other people and businesses) without making a fool of myself... or coming away feeling like I really didn't accomplish anything I needed to. 

On the days that I just don't worry about things, and don't allow myself to become fearful of failure, I can do exceptionally well!! People will sometimes marvel at how well I can do... but its not because of any special talent... I just am not afraid during those times... thats all.

People will walk all over me on a bad day, or when I don't feel good about myself, and I just want to cry. But when I am feeling good and confident people are usually very pleasant with me and we all walk away happy. I don't know if its because people can sense fear and weakness or I am able to handle the scary people better when I feel good, its probably both...

Try to relax around people you have to deal with. 

Maybe since you feel that people don't take kindly to you, you feel nervous? And maybe people can sense your nervousness. Some people, I think, will become nervous and others may just become mean when they sense something that they see as a weakness... Some people will take advantage of any opportunity they can get...  Some people just stink and it doesn't matter how nice you are to them... oh well... in that case its time to be thankful that you aren't like them. People can be very frustrating.

You may be under a lot of pressure, but try not to let that pressure interfere with your outlook.

That is a big problem that I have. I typically crumble under pressure.  So I have to take a break and remind myself that I can only do my best...

If you allow yourself to focus less on the  pressure and more on doing the best you can at what you know you can accomplish...  and take time out from dwelling on the things that make you sad, I promise that you will be able to better results... You will at least feel better at the end of the day and that will help you immensely in the future.

Just try to relax. Take a warm bath... lay down with a nice book... whatever makes you feel better.

My husband and I just bought a starter home last year and I am very nervous about the day coming when we have to move away... right now selling a home seems hard.
Just do and manage what you can and hopefully in time the right buyer will come along.   

Be brave!

Try not to be so sad. Take it all one day at a time.

Focus on making new happy memories! That is my plan as soon as my husband comes back from overseas. Life is too short and hard to let the past wear you down, it can really make you feel very heavy.

Good luck and best wishes!!! <3