My friend is a Mason and has been trying very hard to recruit. I am interested but the reason I don't is because Freemasonry has become more of a social group and everybody that I talk to about it do not know its true meaning, roots or origin or practices and why they do them. I bet that if half its members knew that Albert Pike studied Kabbalah and Tarot that they might have different thoughts. Considering that the Freemason's from where I'm at are either Southern Baptist of Catholic (this doesn't make any sense to me). Why would a someone join the Freemasons's and still be Southern Baptist or Catholic? Neither religion recognizes Masonic teachings and they are on completely different ends of the spectrum.
Freemasonry is also shrouded in a lot more allegory.... using stories to illustrate the points, which are not always clear, even to the Mason undergoing that particular ritual. Rosicrucians seem to learn in a more direct approach... you know what it is you are actually learning and why. I admit I am a bit biased as in Canada, there are no co-freemasonry lodges, as there are in England and other countries... none that I am aware of anyway, and for sure in my province (NS), so I can not become a Mason here. I can't even become a member of the Eastern Star, because you must have a family member who is a Mason. However, I can be a Rosicrucian, and we do have a Pronaos here. In fact, they use the same exact lodge for meetings as the Masons! And Rosicrucians have never discriminated on gender.
Either path though leads towards the same light in the end... so I guess it doesn't really matter which path you take. I would actually recommend Rosocirucain for the more direct path, less allegory, and there is still a social component. If you become a member of AMORC, they have a BEAUTIFUL park in California that includes a really great Egyptian museum, temple and grounds.... I really want to visit there someday. Link:
AMORCAs an alternative, there is another Rosicrucian order that claims to teach the original teachings, and they are much more secretive about their order. Also, I believe that there are no membership dues required for them, since they believe that anyone should be able to follow the path. They do have a very beautiful school and grounds that you can visit as a member. Link:
Original 1614 Rosicrucian Fraternity (mostly known as F.R.C.) Just based on their extra secrecy, makes me think they may be more in tune to the original teachings... They don't openly advertise like AMORC.
edit: I ultimately chose FRC over AMORC.