Well both of us started somewhere from a family and not everybody chooses a very good family where everybody truly loves each other
Mine is not so good, egoist, primitive people. It is for a reason, why your dad or mother are doing this or that with or to you. My lessons were (hard) surviving and stay as I am deep inside, I was successful, but not everybody is successful.
Friendships are like they can last for decades - I had some of these types too - but everything is over after a certain time, some friendships are for a whole life. I think this too depends on what you need.
Love is a good one. But it is again for lessons partly, be with somebody for true love, I could bare with it but never found the true one. But I know if I found "her" it can end up or last for old ages, but we are going to the NP "back" alone.
What could we learn about only good things and if everything is going fine all the time? There would be no need for Earth like systems maybe.

Friendships are like they can last for decades - I had some of these types too - but everything is over after a certain time, some friendships are for a whole life. I think this too depends on what you need.
Love is a good one. But it is again for lessons partly, be with somebody for true love, I could bare with it but never found the true one. But I know if I found "her" it can end up or last for old ages, but we are going to the NP "back" alone.

What could we learn about only good things and if everything is going fine all the time? There would be no need for Earth like systems maybe.