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Hello Firetoice
  You would need to find a school in the type of magic that you are interested in doing. There are a great many schools for Wicca upon the web. I know of a mystery school that is having a conference near Porto, Portugal that is open to the public in December the website is www.fraternitashermtica.org It is a great oppurtunity for anyone interested in Hermetic Magic.
  You should learn about different subjects. I suggest Prannic healing and Master Stephen Cho or Master Choa Kok Sui.
  Nita

Hello Arc
  Learn about shields and wards. It has been a subject on this forum in the past and there are articles on the website. You then do not need to worry about who is attacking you because you will be protected from all harm.
  Wards can be semi precious gemstones in jewlery. Herbal wards from oils, or many other things. The important thing is to pray over them to give them a purpose and then use them all of the time.
  Nita

Hello Wynn
  There are many different protection spells and methods mentioned that should be done before meditation. A simple prayer is good but it all depends upon the type of meditation you are doing.
  I also suggest reading Roberts book and the different sections upon this website. There are protective methods listed. I also have a website www.astralhealer.com that gives a lot of protective methods on it.
  Nita

Hello Everyone
  Ego and emotions can be deadly in combination with magic. I have seen people who were able to get really good results trap themselves in meaningless cycles. It was because they had themselves visualized as the great master or teacher. They then found out that they knew nothing.
  The best magic is done when the person has no emotional energy tied up in the results. They need something or want something to manifest but it is to improve their existence in their opinion. Not because they have an emotion involved in it besides self-improvement
  All of the rest of the emotions just cause distractions except for compassion and loving-kindness.
  Nita

Hello Crim
  I meant experiment. I also want to comment that the attacker normally hardwires the victims mind so that they are always looking for the link or connection. The victims are the ones hooking up all of the time with the attacker. It is not the other way around most of the time.
         Nita

Hello Crim
  If it does not come naturally to you to hear your energy signature then reading and learning about music is the best way to do it. You can find interactive examples for children and then experiment with things your self. Tuning forks are really good for this so if you know a teacher or place that has tuning forks you should expriement with them.
  Nita

Hello Everyone
  This is the third time I have tried to post this message. I do help people without money. I have a website www.astralhealer.com I live off of my donations so my friends put in paypal on the site. It makes it so anyone who wants to donate so I can continue my work on people without the cash can do so.
  I have a lot of information on it about attacks and methods to help yourself. I also suggest going to the library to check out Robert Bruces book Psychic Self-defense. You can read it with out having to buy it and if they do not have the book the librarian can order it.
  I have found that people who know themselves and can love and forgive themselves have fewer problems with negative energies and entities. The real problem is did you get the entities before you got depressed or afterwards.
  It is easy to cure someone who got the entities before they became trapped into negative cycles. The people who were in the negative cycles in the first place have to really work upon themselves to keep away problems. I suggest the loving-kindness or Metta meditation from www.buddhanet.net they have an MP3 guided meditation version. You can find guided meditations for other religions on Beliefnet. It is crucial for the person to be able to love and forgive themselves. You then can accept yourself and all of your energies and know what is not your energies.
  Nita

Hello Everyone
  Black Magic does not work against black magic. I suggest Robert's book. I have a website www.astralhealer.com with a lot of methods upon it also. The site here has a lot of methods to help yourself.
   Nita

Hello Alpine9
  I have said it many times before but there are a lot of articles on how to protect yourself on this website. I always suggest taking herbs such as rosemary, marjoram, angelica, thyme, dill anything which is protective and will not let harmful magic into your space.
  You pray over them stating what you want such as I ask Jesus to bless these herbs to any other sacred name that you want to use. You then sprinkle them in the corners of the rooms and between your mattress's.
  Sleep pillows made of lavender, majoram, and angelica will help. You put it in the pillow case under the pillow so the lumps do not keep you awake. It does not have to be really large.
  You can also keep yourself grounded better if you wear a bloodstone. It can be in a ring or necklace. It is also good at protecting the person who wears it.
  Nita

Hello Paragon Minx
  I suggest that you read the articles on Magic and also Robert's book Psychic self-defense. You should set up shields or wards and there is a lot of information on that also in the forum topics.
  It will keep the negativity out of your life and make it better.
           Nita

Hello Bluerose
  The best combination of herbs I have found so far to prevent ghost from acting up in the house is Angelica, mint and bay leaves. I agree with everyone else on finding someone to clear your house and release the spirits.
  Ghosts can be dangerous and it should be done quickly.
          Nita

Hello Ari
  Everyone has free will and the ability to find the path that suits them. A true teacher will not be controling or force you to follow a path. They will teach you the subject that they or the organization are about and specialize in doing.
  A teacher helps to clear up points when you are beginning that may be misunderstood and sabotage some of your efforts in the future. An organization or a group also allows you to speak with others and learn from what they are interested in and what they do.
  You first have to decide what you want to learn. You should read up on the subject and actually do some of the methods. It will show you if it is something suited to you and your interests.
  You should then continue studying and see if there are any teachers in your area or on the internet. A lot of magical schools now have internet access and teach solitary students.
  Magic is a lot of hard work and I suggest finding a method of meditation that suits you and helps you to concentrate. I also suggest reading books upon how to visualize because it is essential to any sort of magic. You have to have control of your mind to make magic work properly. The only way this is accomplished is by working upon yourself. You will then find that the teacher just pops up or becomes accessible to you at a point where they will be able to benefit you and your learning.
  Nita

Hello Xelios
  It is as simple as good against evil. We are the only people who decide what we want in our life. We decide what we want to be and that is it. No one has to be happy all of the time but we should all enjoy and experience our lives to the fullest.
  Our own actions may cause us to go through some things that are not good but we can resolve this by not repeating the mistakes. Anyone that is doing harm to others can be effected by counter measures and methods from any magic book. Anyone can fight evil in their own lives and just one day at a time make themselves have a better life.
  The only times the methods do not work properly is when the person suspected is not the one doing evil to you. It is then time to just make anything to remove evil general and get rid of everything without caring who or what brought it into your life.
  No one should control a person's life except their own selves and the higher forces that help them. They all allow free choice and let you be the person you want to be.
  Nita

Hello Travelinbob
  I suggest you print some of the articles on this website and give them to her. Roberts book would also be a big help. A few ideas is to put a light coat of garlic orrosemary oil on the phone receiver. Nothing that would hurt it.
  Next is to be sure that she does methods where she does not reverse things upon him. She will feel worse if he gets worse. I have an artifact destruction spell that helps with this.
  The mother should take a picture of herself, a fingernail, some hair, salivia and anything else he could have used to power the spell. You then put it into a piece of paper and write upon it. Sprinkle some salt upon it and pray that all links to you be destroyed so no more evil, harm, curses or hexes can be done to you.
  You burn it in a fireplace, woodburning stove or bar b que. You then empty the ashes into running water after you are sure that everything is completely burned.
  It makes it so the spells have nothing to link too. That means that there is no way for the person to find you except to call you up or get you to write them. The protective oil upon the phone should stop that from happening.
  Nita

Hello Criminal Mind
  I have been under psychic attack constantly because of helping others. Control over you mind is number one. The next thing is to learn ways to protect yourself that do not involve anger or negative emotions that they can play with or use to harm you.
  The website here has a great many methods to help yourself. The next thing is to take your own energy back and block everything else. If you can not shield take a picture of yourself and draw a shield around it and place sacred symbols inside of the circle. Concentrate on the sacred symbols.
  Religion says to ask your guardian angel to help you. You have to bring your life under control and make it so they do not have the chaotic energy to base their curses upon. The best way to do this is to bring yourself out of the chaos first.
  Every time you blame this person for something and believe that they can do things you add your power to what they are doing. You stop this by not thinking of them as all powerful or able to do these things. I find thinking of a funny or gross image of them where it makes you laugh every time you think of them is good.
  I suggest a Century of Spells by Draja Micharic for beginners. I suggest Robert's book. You have to set the spells up and do them consistantly. I also suggest the countermeasures article upon this website. No one needs to suffer endlessly but you can trap yourself in that cycle. You have to work upon yourself to make your life better. The best way to do this is a little bit at a time. You will be amazed at the difference when you are done.
  Nita

Hello Criminal mind
You hit the key it is psychology but it is also the fact that no one says you have to suffer. You also mention that you are told not to send the attackers emotions back to them. I explained the reason for that because you bind and tie yourself to that person. You then make it worse. It is as simple as that and I have to ask you. Have you made a lot of headyway sending those emotions back at them? Have you or anyone else made your life better by doing so? Let us get a consensus going here.
  You can leave something behind and make it where you do not have to suffer also. You can cut loose all of the anger and hate. You can then move forward in life instead of being in an eternal struggle.
  I have done it and I have experienced it. I have helped out hundreds of people when they have listened to me and agreed to do the things I asked. It was not control, it was not telling them to suffer, and it was not thinking I got to boss them around.
  I asked them and they did it to help themselves. They made the decisions and decided what to do. I do not control others or push them around. I do not feel I have a right to do so in any way.
  I do get tired of a lot of things. The main thing is peoples misconceptions about magic and Initiation. Initiation is to travel a path to get you closer to God. It is not to get you more power or a way to control others. It is the inner transformation of yourself to the best of your ability.
  Nita

Hello Mick
  You misunderstood me. You also do not know much about me if you think I have ever advocated abuse or any kind of suffering. People do have to learn. They do have lessons. They have to give up the things that trap them into the negative cycles and they have to work upon themselves. They may not have caused themselves to be where they are at but they have the choice on whether or not to stay there. The reason this phrase popped up in New Age thought is not because of people like me. It popped up because people just got sick and tired of dealing with others who put them through nothing but grief.
  They took it a step further and gave themselves an ego boost by being able to say they were more evolved than the other people on top of it. The reason for this is a lot of people want to do nothing but complain. You can see this with abused people who have been beaten by others. They all go back to the people who harm them at least once. The reason why is they fool themselves. The ones who go into hate and rage also tie themselves closer to the person who abused them than if they were part of them. Very few of the people are smart enough to cut the situation loose and see how unhealthy they have become mentally. They always say I wouldn't be this way if this hadn't of happened and make excuses. They blame their problems upon the abuse instead of overcoming it. The people that overcome what is going on are the ones doing something about it. They are not the ones still complaining about the people and staying in the same place.
  Now before everyone gets mad at me because I am saying something unpopular. I am sorry for you if it hurts your feelings. It is a fact that some people are not patient with others and want to be mean because they want to have their world go the way they want it to go. The New Age healers do not want to admit that they just can not cure some things. Some things have to be done by the person themselves. They use control such as in the churches mentioned to make it so everyone agrees with them. It makes them feel better.
  I do not feel suffering makes your life come more alive. Learning new methods and having things go right are invigorating. Benefiting from the hard work done learning something is great. Enjoying every moment of life good or bad is something that breaks you loose from the cycle of complaint and negatvity that goes on in this world. Those things make your life come alive. I hope everyone takes a moment or two to think about this instead of becoming upset. Life is full of everything that can happen to you and you are the ones that get to decide how to live it. You are also the person that has to look at yourself in the mirror every day. Think about what you want to see.
  Nita

Hello Crim
  I stated that these sorts of people draw energy out of others. They do it to form their own realities where everything goes the way that they want it to go. Anyone around them has to be in this reality and they do this by draining them dry of energy. A person who does this and is stopped by the other person gets vicious and mad. They then put their motives upon the person who stopped them and viciously attack them.
  You can reverse things upon others. There is an energy signature but if you do a reversal or banishment with a lot of anger and rage then they reverse those emotions back upon you. You can say there are entities that are the exception to the rule but I can say that I have never seen anything that can stand up to the energy of loving-kindness and eat it that is harmful. I have been doing this for 34 years and I have seen an awful lot of weird entities.
  A curse or hex causes imbalances in a persons energy. You then find that the person develops certain patterns of thought with these imbalances. The attacker keeps the person in the thought pattern that benefits their spells and works. The person basically is stuck in a partial pattern of what could be happening to them as the psychic vampire feeds off of the energy to form their own reality where all the good and kind things happen to them.
  I could give examples all night but what I am saying is that this is all energy and energy work. I did not say any verbal patterns besides the fact that the persons who vampirism method stemmed from people feeling sorry for her and pity.
  Hexes cause imbalances where the persons own talents are used against them along with the other energies summoned so are a different subject from vampires.
  Nita

Hello Mick
  You are ignoring a great moment of insight by not feeling a lesson is to be learnt.You may consider it a catch all but if you don't learn then how are you living? Do you ever do anything new or fun? You learn lessons every moment of life by living it. You have to admit you are accepting abuse to decide what to do about it. You have to know the difference between bad and good to decide whether you should do something or not.
  It is cause and effect and is a part of this world in every way. You have to understand that there is an opposite emotion and action for everything that is done. You have to consciously choose the decisions that lead you in the way you want to go. You had to learn a lesson on how to do this to know it must be done.
  People misinterpret this as having to go through suffering. It does not mean that but it does mean being responsible for you actions. You have the opportunity to open up your choices.People who are hexed have a tendancy to only see the bad to worse choices. It is why these bad things happen to them. It doesn not mean bad karma or anything else they just can't see the good choices. They are able to change their lives when they know how to do it to the good choices by applied energy methods and techniques to open up their mind.
  We have the free will to make these choices. I know I have made bad choices in the past. I learned what was at the roots of what caused me to make them and resolved it. I do not let it happen again that means I learned a lesson in how to live my life. Children are a good example of this because the parents have to teach them the art of how to live. They become potty trained because no one wants everyone doing anything else. They learn to say thank you and please because it is how to relate to others. The list goes on and it is all learning and a lesson on how to live.
  Most people that are attacked or the attackers are people who have not learned how to live magically. They do not understand that you can't do certain things without repercussions. They have to realize that they can do things to ease their suffering. They have to learn these things to do so it is another lesson in life. They are all psychic.
  I could win the lottery. I would make choices on how to spend it. I could improve others lives or my own. I would learn lessons from that and not all of them would be good. Life is learning how to live and be a real person. No one shows you how to do this so you learn lessons about yourself and life. You can call it a catch all but where would you be now if you did not know how to talk and spell words?
  Nita

Hello Xander
  I have noticed that all of the psychic vampires I have met and dealt with have suffered from Narcissist Personality disorder. The person who suffers from this tries to make everything in his life go the exact way he plans it to go. He does this by sucking off others energies and then using them himself.
  One example is a person wanted to be a tragic victim. She went to multiple psychics who never could cure her. You could see her say everytime anyone got somewhere with a pose of a long suffering victim. My curse is special it is so difficult to get rid of in everyway. It is unbreakable.
  She acted really vicious when the real world broke into her planned life and caused even worse problems for herself. She put herself and everyone around her through living hades.
  If you fear you are a psychic vampire watch yourself and see if you become vicious and nasty if everything does not go the exact way you want it to go. Do you become vicious when someone around you does not do exactly what you want them to act like. Is your life like a soap opera that you plan out and implement.
  The way to get around it is just to go somewhere you have to adjust to the real world. Volunteer in a soup kitchen, work with people with problems, do something good for people where you have to relate to the people.
  Meditate and observe yourself and your actions. Break any patterns of controling and judgemental attitudes. It will break any pattern of being a narcissist if you work upon it. You can then live your life as a real person instead of as someone who is living a lie.
  If you do not have this problem then this message should point out some of the things that you do not do. Narcisstic behavior does run in families.
  Nita

Hello Xelios
  There is a spell where it does feel like a dog collar or a cap over your head and it is used to control you. You are correct that every illness has a cause and no one is to blame for that illness. Psychic illness's are very difficult because you have to find where it is attached to and how it started. It is like a detective novel. The who, what, why when and where.
  Different things work for different people unlike physical illness's where you can standardize a treatment. I have never been to a spiritualist church and have never wanted to go. I have been to a lot of other ceremonies and places. It all comes down to the person and their judgement of what they want to do. Listening to yourself saves you a lot of trouble in this life.
  Nita

Hello Xelios
  One thing I forgot. Negative spirits and spells link to negative occurances in a persons life. They feed off of these energies and it is why there is always a place where the person allows them to attach to them. The person does not want to think or look at those moments so they are the perfect hiding spots.
  It takes the victim working upon themselves to heal these spots and remove the negative energies by forgiveness of themself for letting it happen, releasing all of the pain and sorrow, and then deciding to go on with their lives accepting themselves and what they do. They have to accept responsibilty for their decisions and keep themselves out of the same energetic patterns that caused the problems A curse allows something that can be blamed for every wrong and bad decision or happening without taking responsibility for any of it. You never did the bad or mean thing but the curse caused you to do it.
  The person who expects an instant cure with out working upon themselves will never receive it. They do not give permission for these things to happen but their lives lead them to a certain moment where they have to overcome these lessons to go further in their lives. A lot of people have problems where they can learn how to grow into real people. Not ones who have a front of what they want to be and don't really know what they are.
  A lot of the different new age thought places the blame upon the person. They then say you allowed it and ostracize the person with the troubles instead of aiding them to a better energetic and mental condition. They also have a superiority thing going on where they are more evolved and spiritual. A person who is truly evolved and spiritual does not have to walk upon others sorrows to be that way. They compare themselves to their past and try to make improvements.
  Nita

Hello Xelios
  One of my first experiences with a New Age Healing method was watching a person dying of cancer being told by the healer that it was all his fault. He was a revengeful person that had his emotions poisoning him. I have never liked that method of healing again.
  I feel that there is sensible spirituality that should be used.Do not let anyone control or boss you around. They are not God or who ever you are worshipping. Do not do methods that you are getting a warning about. Do listen to your inner self and if it sounds dangerous don't do it.
  I always try to let people have the benefit of the doubt. I will always do what is best for me in my opinion no matter what anyone else says should be done. The other side of the coin is if you hire an expert on something listen to them. I have had people who don't want to heal or hear what I say. They do not do anything and they then complain that so and so couldn't help them. They never listened or did things properly and they wanted to thwart their healing. If you don't want to hear it then don't ask for their opinions. If you don't feel comfortable with their methods then don't hire them.
  It means whether it is New Age or old everyone should only do what they feel comfortable with doing. You should research any schools or teachers that you study with in any type of classes. You wouldn't go to a university to get a degree without hearing about the school and its credentials. You research and study. You read pros and cons then you do the methods you feel good about.
  I know most people are spiritual dabblers. They never make a commitment and seriously study anything anymore. It is a big mistake to do this.
        Nita

Hello Celeste
  It is useful for dark forces and entities because they do use cords to connect to those moments in time where we have our worse problems. Negative forces connect to negative energies. It is why they do this to our problems in our lives whether they are in the past or present.
  Nita

Hello Sapphrite
  I have found that when you have an energy blockage in the chakra that you can destroy the connection to the bad event. It is what you are doing attacking that point. You should not attack the person. It will link you to that person through hatred and revenge and the blockage will stay.
  The best things I have found so far are the core image removal by Robert Bruce. The article is able to be read on this website on how to do it. The other thing is forgiveness of yourself and removing all feelings from that time period. You then think of the person who did the evil to you and say I forgive you because it is in your nature. I refuse to be linked to you and the evil that is you anymore.
  You then let loose all of the hate, anger, revenge, betrayal, upset and just plain torment. It will clear out the blockages better. Psychic attack is not the thing to do because it will link and bring in the same energies that are natural to those trying to harm you. Reversals also will make it so you end up battling yourself.
  Nita