Feeling negativity, letting go... etc.

[AstralCody]

I did not know where to put this topic but I had a few questions.

I got out of dinner tonight with my grandma and great aunt and we were heading back to the car. At the stoplight a car proceeded to roll down it's window and a lady yelled at the other driver. I must have heard the F-bomb drop from both individuals at the same time. I never heard someone yell so loud lol. Just road rage... Nothing new in this world. Here is my question though. I found myself wondering... If that happened to me... Someone rolled down their window and yelled at me like that and called me names... Wanting to fight... etc. I thought of what I would do... I didn't even have to think about it. I would have just made an apologetic wave and ignored it. Is this a good thing? Or would it be a bad thing to hide in the anger from what they were doing to you?

Lately in the past weeks I been working on forgiving. Forgiving everyone. Everyone who has been mean... done horrible thing to me. I send them light and I forgive. It makes me happy. It's not easy to do... But I am still working on this.

 

[Lionheart]

Lately in the past weeks I been working on forgiving. Forgiving everyone. Everyone who has been mean... done horrible thing to me. I send them light and I forgive. It makes me happy. It's not easy to do... But I am still working on this.

This is what "lowering your entropy" is truly all about! 

[AstralCody]

Thanks Lionheart!

Yeah it's not easy to do... but it's worth it. It's so worth it. I been having more experiences this way too. 

[roman67]

It is great that you are forgiving everyone and I really like it. It will make you feel proud and happy.

[Xanth]

If I could "like" your post... I WOULD! 

Yes, you're doing just fine.  You'll be really tested eventually... just remember what you've learned.

[AstralCody]

Thank you all so much!
Also anybody else reading this I suggest to you to please try forgiving everybody. Holding grudges is nothing but negativity and all it causes is stress etc.

A good technique I do before I sleep I lay there every night and listen to music usually Enya... Something very relaxing. I just send white light to anybody who has hurt me and I forgive them, and then I move on focusing on me! Just think of them... send the light... and you can even send them love if you want. I done this quite a few times and I promise you will feel so much better.

[Xanth]

Thank you all so much!
Also anybody else reading this I suggest to you to please try forgiving everybody. Holding grudges is nothing but negativity and all it causes is stress etc.

A good technique I do before I sleep I lay there every night and listen to music usually Enya... Something very relaxing. I just send white light to anybody who has hurt me and I forgive them, and then I move on focusing on me! Just think of them... send the light... and you can even send them love if you want. I done this quite a few times and I promise you will feel so much better.

SlashLike. 

[ForrestDean]

A good technique I do before I sleep I lay there every night and listen to music usually Enya...

Awesome!  I always enjoy listening to Enya. 

[AstralCody]

Xanth- hahah

Forrest- Yeah! Her song sail away is my favorite. Great right before bed. 

[Mini stapler]

I did not know where to put this topic but I had a few questions.

I got out of dinner tonight with my grandma and great aunt and we were heading back to the car. At the stoplight a car proceeded to roll down it's window and a lady yelled at the other driver. I must have heard the F-bomb drop from both individuals at the same time. I never heard someone yell so loud lol. Just road rage... Nothing new in this world. Here is my question though. I found myself wondering... If that happened to me... Someone rolled down their window and yelled at me like that and called me names... Wanting to fight... etc. I thought of what I would do... I didn't even have to think about it. I would have just made an apologetic wave and ignored it. Is this a good thing? Or would it be a bad thing to hide in the anger from what they were doing to you?

Lately in the past weeks I been working on forgiving. Forgiving everyone. Everyone who has been mean... done horrible thing to me. I send them light and I forgive. It makes me happy. It's not easy to do... But I am still working on this.

 

To the question, is it bad to hide your anger? Yes & No, it really depends on what you do with it. Repressing your feelings is a bad thing, they do need to be processed one way or another or they will effect you. But I don't think there is anything wrong with holding them back in the moment to be dealt with later for the sake of social order & that as long as they're actually dealt with.

Remember, everything is about me. When someone is mean or horrible, it is about them, no matter how personal they shape the attack at you, the whole thing is about them, nothing to do with you. what are you forgiving? I forgive you for being mean & upsetting me... Ask yourself, when you get upset or angry, who is it that makes you feel like this? Does it really have anything to do with the person who's being mean or horrible? Then you can focus on the cause, not just the symptom.

Then you can ponder on what is there to be forgiven? That's how I try to look at it. 

[Stookie_]

Even when someone does something purposely to hurt you, they are doing it out of their own confusion and misunderstanding of reality and the situation. Circumstantial experiences color their perspective. It's their fault, but not really their fault. It's easier to forgive when keeping this in mind.

I also believe that when your doing anything "spiritual" (or whatever you want to call it), that you should be doing it with all of humanity in mind. That what you're working towards is not for yourself, but for everyone, and have the faith and intent that we'll all eventually get there. We're all in this together, it's not about "self".

[Lionheart]

Even when someone does something purposely to hurt you, they are doing it out of their own confusion and misunderstanding of reality and the situation. Circumstantial experiences color their perspective. It's their fault, but not really their fault. It's easier to forgive when keeping this in mind.

There was a gentleman named Richard Martini on Coast to Coast AM last night. He was speaking on results obtained from over 7,000 past life regression and NDE cases.. He said that was he saw was that we make contracts with everyone before we come into this life. We even make contracts, he said like a play, where each person has a part to play and they agree upon it before coming into this life. Like an abusive father for example, before we came into this world, we asked that person to be abusive to us so we may experience and learn from it. He said that it's like a part in play. He said that all this life is about is learning and experiencing different things and scenarios. It was a rather interesting interview. In about a week you could find it on Youtube.com in a search. Here is his website. http://www.flipsidethebook.com/
What really peaked my interest was the last half hour of his 3 hour interview, when he started talking about all the Past Life Regression Therapists that have been coming upon a number of people that told of their past lives, but they weren't here on Earth. Then he talks about all the people, it used to be 10%, but now is more like 30% of the patients that are saying they came here at this point, to be here for the "Shift". They say for the "shift" in consciousness. Not of a new dimension or anything, he said they are here to prepare others for the "arrival". He has never seen a UFO or done any research at all into the field, this is just what he is saying after hearing this countless times. It's actually on par with what a number of Past Life Regression Therapist are finding now. Dolores Cannon being one of them.

[Holy Blood]

Thank you all so much!
Also anybody else reading this I suggest to you to please try forgiving everybody. Holding grudges is nothing but negativity and all it causes is stress etc.

A good technique I do before I sleep I lay there every night and listen to music usually Enya... Something very relaxing. I just send white light to anybody who has hurt me and I forgive them, and then I move on focusing on me! Just think of them... send the light... and you can even send them love if you want. I done this quite a few times and I promise you will feel so much better.

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Give away the stone.
Let the oceans take and trans mutate this cold and fated anchor.
Give away the stone.
Let the waters kiss and trans mutate these leaden grudges into gold. - Tool - The Grudge

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She can help you trans mutate your grudges to gold.. treat her well

[KarmicBeats]

It is very difficult to send positive energy to those who have wronged you.  I want to make bad things happen to them Not good things
Some people are more difficult to forgive than others.

[O.O.P]

There's a great wisdom in not reacting to the people who are deeply unconscious (which is a very common thing in this "technology" world). At first it seems a very hard thing to practise, but the results may be deeply blissful because your ego is cracking