A dream about love :)

[jackmac13]

Hi all, I haven't posted hear in a while but here goes..
A few nights ago I had a dream where I was about to get married! Now this is odd for 2 reasons, the first of which is that I'm an 18 year old male and we don't tend to dream much about marriage. the second is that i knew the girl in the dream, I quite like her but we aren't dating or anything..

Anyway, in this dream I felt the single most intense love for her i've ever felt in my life. Its very hard to explain but I'll try. I saw her standing there in her dress and instantly felt like i could not stand to be away from her for a second. i felt that we were connected in some profound way and that neither of us could survive without the other. I can only remember how i felt at the time, i can't imagine ever feeling the same way about anything or anyone. its quite strange.

So i have a couple of questions..

1. what does this dream mean? I've never looked at this girl and felt anything like it!

2. Why can i feel this whole new level of love in a dream but not the physical world.

Thanks for your time

[Xanth]

Perhaps you knew her in a past life and were married?
Why not try to strike up a conversation with her and see where it takes ya? 

[Stookie]

I'll take a stab a question 2:

Perhaps your being shown that it is possible. You're gaining a better understanding of love that might be hard to come by otherwise. Then maybe you won't settle for a love-less marriage like many do.

The individual might not mean anything, just the first person pulled from your subconscious. But you never know...

[jackmac13]

Haha, way ahead of ya Xanth! 
thanks for the answers guys (or observations) hopefully it will help me to choose well when it comes time to go after the girl of my dreams 
Either way that feeling was probably the single greatest in my life so far.

[thirdeye26]

It could be a past life connection. Perhaps you had gone back to a time in the past when you were deeply in love with each other and got married. The same need not be true today. Why not invite her for a casual date and see what happens?

[lily moonsong]

Haha!  The first thing I thought when I read this post is that she must have put a love spell on you.  But then, I ruled out that option when I realized you actually liked her.   

I agree with Stookie, as there is no way to know if you shared a past life or not. 

Did you talk to her?  How did it go if you don't mind sharing?

[jackmac13]

sorry bout the delayed post lily.
actually I haven't seen her for quite a while now, she lives pretty close to me and hangs out in the same circle of friends, unfortunatly I haven't had a whole lot of time lately..
I'm wasn't aware that sort of spell actually existed! actually I don't know anything about spells. or past lives and reincarnation. I have a lot of reading to do lol.