Dark Vapor Technique?

[curiousgirl]

hmmm... your experience sounds incredibly like the incubus/succubus descriptions, where you find a (usually) evil-looking spirit on top of you, and they are having sex with you.  i did a bit of research on this, because i had a somewhat similar experience, except i had a bunch of dark figures standing around me, and they didn't molest me... even though they didn't mess with me, i was quite terrified and had to find out what had happened.  sooo, i found that this experience happens to lots of people... it is referred to as sleep paralysis by scientists, and it doesn't always have to be being molested by incubi/succubi, but it is usually terrifying, because you are paralyzed and have some evil presence staring at you.  the scientists believe that it's when you fall into a state where you're conscious, but you're body's still paralyzed from being asleep.

but then i found an article that stated that people wanting out-of-body experiences purposely try to get into this scary state in order to induce an OBE, though i guess it's not always a scary experience.  anyway, supposedly when you are seeing in this state, actually your eyes are closed, and you are actually seeing everything with your "astral eyes".  your body is paralyzed, but your astral body can exit your body and move around, with practice.  it can also experience a lot of the same sensations as the "real" body.  haha i hope this makes sense, i'm trying to compress a lot of info into something shorter.  anyway, if you are in this state, you can break it by concentrating on moving a body part, or talking.  out-of-body travelers run across spirits and all that, so i guess incubi/succubi really exist.  i have never read about an actual human becoming one, but maybe your boyfriend is capable of leaving his body and messing with you.  

personally, i think this is a horrible test of fidelity, because being raped by a spirit is not exactly great for your mental state.  i know i was terrified of the dark and sat shuddering under my blankets before sleep for months after my "visitors", and they hadn't even done anything to me, except stare at me!  anyway, his test is pretty stupid (in my personal opinion), because i would think a lot of people would fight against an ominous presence raping them while they're paralyzed.  not to mention, just because someone breaks free of this being, doesn't mean that they won't find themselves attracted to a good-looking, sweet HUMAN guy!  i mean, who would you rather have sex with... a good-looking sweet human guy who asks your permission, or an ominous dark figure who assaults you in a state of paralysis and terror?  and even if you had sex with this ominous figure willingly and enjoyed it, it doesn't mean that you are gonna run around and screw every guy in town.  more than likely you're just going to want to have your ghosty lover only (i mean, how convenient.. you won't have to worry about him calling your house at the wrong time, or bumping into your husband while you're together, or hiding him in the closet, or something.  and no commitment required, and no proof of his existence, except in your mind!)  well, i don't know what kind of guy your boyfriend is, but if he's really a great person, maybe you guys can practice leaving your bodies and having "astral sex".  i read that that's supposed to be really err.. nice!

[Graupel]

What you describe as far as the color lights and numbness seem like an achieved focus 10 state (hypnagogic)

[shadowradier]

nice one man[:O][:O]

[XpqpqX]

some one please tell me how to become invisible
please?

[XpqpqX]

i don't want to kill any black cats so don't include any instructions with killing black cats

[Rastus]

It strikes me as wrong, and multiple levels and planes.

I won't frighten you more, but that was simply wrong.

[LiLRaverJay]

Killing cats?

There is someone in my city who is going around killing cats..  Just not killing, decapatating or spliting them in two.   Disgusting.  He leaves the bodies on the owners lawns to find in the morning.  The cops thought they found him, but its still contiuning
bonked up

[Seven]

If this man really does have the power to do this, then I would seriously question his "excuse" for doing it - it is an abuse of power.

I agree with what curiousgirl and Rastus said - it's very wrong, and the only reason I can see why he would do something like this is because he can.  Any relationship without trust (and he already proved he doesn't trust you) is no relationship at all.

Find a decent boyfriend.  You're worth more than that.

[DejaClaireVoyant]

Hi everyone. First off, I'm sorry if this is in the wrong place..I think it fits in with magic, but I'm not sure.
Have any of you experts heard of something called the "Dark Vapor Technique"? It was used on me by someone I know. I'll do my best to describe the experiance.
I was in my room and all the sudden I began to feel VERY strange..all of the sudden. It started with feeling kinda sleepy, and then I began to feel really weird, and couldn't see. I started feeling numb all over, like I was no longer in my body. I couldn't control myself, and by this point, I was frightened terribly.
Next, the feeling was like free falling but slowly, in darkness..with kinda random swirls of sparkly light..although (hope this makes sense) it was like I wasn't seeing it through my eyes. I felt like I was falling and spinning, around and around, completely out of control. I had NO idea what was happening to me, for all I knew I thought I could have had a stroke or something and this is what it felt like to be dead.
Next thing..I feel myself come into my body again (best way to describe the feeling) and I am laying on my back on my bed. I can't move and there is this black figure on top of me. I realized at this point that my eyes were open as I was seeing this figure..and the first thing I notice when I look at him was the shape (he was like a black outline filled in with shadow, kinda see through but no features like eyes, nose, ect.) was, "OH MY GOD, that looks like my boyfriend!" It struck me as weird..but I didn't make the total connection till later.
Anyways..so this black figure was sitting on me, staring at me (no eyes I know, but I could feel it watching me with this weird fascination) and to my horror, it began molesting me! I could feel his fingers inside (the er..exit only place if ya know what I mean, not to be gross) and they were so cold. But they felt solid, like real human fingers just really cold.
Being a strong woman, there was NO way I was gonna have that. But I was paralyzed..so I went deep inside of myself to my heart, and pushed from there, pushed with everything I had against the force it had on me, pushed it up through my throat and out my mouth with what felt like the loudest scream inside of me. What came out was more like a little yelp, but with that, I felt it's hold break on me. It's head shot up, and it sort of twisted up and away like smoke.
I then remembered a story my boyfriend had told me about his ex girlfriend of 4 years. About two years into their relationship, she had told him that a "ghost had come to her and had sex with her, and she had liked it." My experiance occured at about two years into our relationship as well. With that, and the way the shadow shape had remarkably looked like my boyfriends outline, I began to make the connection.
When I first talked to him, all he said was, "It's okay baby, it was a test..you passed. You are the one."
After much, much prodding to get him to tell me more about this, he has come out and told me that it's something called the Dark Vapor Technique..something he was just born knowing how to do (among MANY other things, keep in mind my boyfriend is NO ordinary guy)..he said that he didn't conciously do that to me, but while he was sleeping/dreaming, a part of him did. It was a way to make sure the person he was with was someone who wouldn't hurt him (as in, I pushed it away, I wouldn't lay with another, even in astral form-not knowing it was a part of him)...
SO- there is my story about the dark vapor technique. I don't really have any questions about my boyfriend or why it happened. I understand the test as it was given to me and why I had to pass. I just wondered if any of you have had experiances like this with your loved ones, or otherwise...or any thoughts?
Much Love n Light!
-andi