Could this be my problem?

[GodlySmith]

I have posted multiple times on this site and other sites about a guided tour I had in which I encountered a very beautiful women who claimed to be an alien, she said she was going to show me the universe, she did the very thing, showed it to me, showed me multiple alien races in which in the case of my death I would be able to come back as.

So I have made a goal to find out who this women is, because when I seen her, for some reason I knew her and felt a very warm satisfying feeling when I meet her. I find it hard to leave my body, let alone lay still for a large sum of time till I get vibrations with out scratching, moving or doing something. SO I started thinking what if it is hard to achieve this because I have not decalcified my body, could this be a factor? I am still in search of this women...

[Szaxx]

Once you stop thinking physical world, the answer will come.
You are you and not the body.
The driver is not the car if you understand me.

[desert-rat]

You could ask the lady her name and if she uses the net on earth . If she has a nic. on any of the forums you have posted .  To my knowledge there are no space aliens on this forum , but who knows .  
p.s. This site has a lot active members , and an a.p. sec. you might also make a  post there . I can post a few more sites , if asked , also I have a list of other forums in the links sec. of s.f. , but you need to be a member to see it .
http://www.spiritualforums.com/vb/

[GodlySmith]

I am not saying that there is an 'alien' on this site. I am saying I am in the search for this astral being.

[Xanth]

I am not saying that there is an 'alien' on this site. I am saying I am in the search for this astral being.

Well, the problem is that there's no way to identify whether this "being" was someone internal or external to you... that's the first challenge.
The second challenge is your interpretation of your experience.  What was being shown to you?  It could have been many different aspects of yourself... in which case, the being in question is probably internal, but then that's just a complete guess.

When interpreting your experiences... things are hardly ever as literal as when you experience them. 

[Re]

For all you know that being could have been yourself in the future or in another life (I believe gender is irrelevant here). I'd say the only way to find her would be to ask directly in the astral.
As for the decalcification thing, I don't think it has anything to do with that. Your state of mind is all that matters, so don't let that kind of thoughts make you believe you can't do it.

You can do it! Now go and project!