Tried to Help Someone

[darksidessj25]

Yesterday I had another expierience. I found myself in a quickstop looking at this guy. I asked him how he died. He said he got bit by a spider. There was a child with him about 4 or 5 years old who was running around the store. Maybe that was an person and not a ghost. It was still kind of odd. After that I tried to help him out by saying that he needs to search for the light. Then everything went white and fuzzy. Usually when I ask how someone died they scream at me really load and go threw me. I find that very rude.

Thought's on this?

[paul72]

Rude! I'd be petrified!

[Bluefirephoenix]

My understanding is that people tend to run and deny that they're dead and build an illusion around themselves that they're still alive. Guides have to go in and try to convince them to drop the illusion and go with them. People tend to be resistent to changing that illusion because it's scary and if the afterlife wasn't what they were expecting then they have to deal with a major shift in beliefs. I would seek out their guide before going in.

[Xanth]

Most people these days don't ever want to confront the idea of "death", most people, as BFP suggested, run away from the idea completely.
This won't change when people actually die... they can and will refuse to confront it, especially when they find that they're still them and that they aren't "really" dead.  LoL

[Szaxx]

Rofl
I dont think I've asked anyone NP how they met their demise.
I'd expect a reaction as yours.
Normally if you are there to help, you really need to be subtle. You know of your purpose beforehand in most experiences of this nature.
Diving straight in is not going to yield good results. On occasion it may though.

Excellent post on having good intentions and it all blowing up in your face. You're learning and may end up in a simulation or even a school. Don't be put off at all,  youll get help in many ways from guides etc.
The child may have been a guide, at times it's a good thing to ask anyone close by for info. This can give you an indication on a method to use or what not to do.
As you've met others already, it may be a great help to look around first. If you thought about whats  on their mind and wanted to know, this in itself can open doors to telepathy. You'll then know how they feel which gives you a massive advantage.
You're doing fine though.