so this is starting to freak me out...

[SnakeDoctor]

so i met this girl at a social website(ie Myspace), been talking thru email. over the weekend i decided to give her my number. we've been talking thru text messaging, also met over the weekend and decided to start dating as well. whats really bugging me, is that i can tell when shes going to text me. i'll picture her texting some one on her phone and a minute late my phone goes off and it's her(have yet to be wrong on that). i also can feel how she is, i don't know how to explain that, but i can just feel her emotion. i also some how knew she was having sex with some one last night. i could just picture, her and some guy in the backseat of a car(as much detail as i'll go into here). i text her to go to bed, since she had to get up this morning. a little bit later she text's me to say she was just caught by a cop and such.

what i'm getting to is that why can i tell when she text's me, have an idea what she is doin, and feel what she feels? could i honestly have that type of connection with some one i've physically seen only once.

[NoY]

Yes you can

I have experienced this a number of times. when you have a love interest in your life its not un common to know what they are thinking or be able to see what they are doing. its even possible to make love with them over thousands of miles and it feels as real as if they were in the same room as you. Tantric sex is well known for the ability to connect with a love interest over vast distances. you will most likely find that when she is not in your life anymore these "special powers" will disipate

:NoY:

[thesickmoon]

I've had that kinda connection with a few chicks, too. It probably won't be the last time you have that kinda connection with someone. If she's frakkin' around on you, dump her -- connection and all! That's what I say.

[Embodied Words]

Hm. Gotta say, I'm kinda jealous. I'm engaged, and I don't have that kind of connection with my fiance.

[SnakeDoctor]

eh, i wouldn't EW. i had that connection with my ex-fiance and well, the rest can go without saying.

[karenprosen]

Interesting, I have a similar connection with the person i've been with for 2 years and it's definitely been the most difficult thing Ive ever been through. So embodied words, maybe it's good you don't have that connection with your fiancée because ultimately it's too draining and although a connection like that can be transformational, I personally wouldn't want to spend the rest of my life with someone unless things were solid and comfortable. hopefully she is that person for you!