Past Life Exploration (your guidance required.. plz help)

[new2ap]

Hello,

I'm very much interested in knowing about my past life as my current situation is not what I expect in life to happen with me. I am not getting any answers to my question from the consciousness (GOD) which makes me frustrated and depressed and sometimes suicidal.

My purpose of knowing my past life is only to understand whether my present situation is related to my actions in my previous life.

I just want to know and accept anything bad i have done or what is making me struggle in this life.  Because when things does not work the way it should when I put honest efforts, whether it is related to job, relationship etc. I feel so much heart broken that i cannot explain.

I really want to know what kind of person I am? good or bad? why I am struggling when I do not hurt people, why things happen with me which I do not deserve.  I just want a normal life when I am not expecting much.

Can anyone tell me What is the best resource available for tapping into the past life? I beg your guidance please help....... please please... 

[Xanth]

Usually, when we find ourselves in times where we feel depressed, it's because we're struggling against the flow of life.

Bashar has an interesting outlook on spiritual growth, and it means digging into exactly what you're feeling and why you're feeling it.  He goes, "What would have to be true about you and your life right now to make you feel the way you're feeling". 

You're holding onto a belief which isn't serving you, figure out what that belief is, allow it to serve you, then let it go, because it's job will have been completed.

I'm very much interested in knowing about my past life as my current situation is not what I expect in life to happen with me.

What happens if you shift your perspective here?  Try to find the positive in where you are and why you're possibly experiencing what you're experiencing.

[new2ap]

You know Xanth, I always accept what comes to me whether it is good or bad. But sometimes you cannot accept because you know how honest you were and it definitely feels unacceptable, not because of your ego or your perspective was wrong  because you know it cannot be against you. It feels very broken inside, its like you can accept everything even when there was not your fault, but not every time or for the one you know that you are not wrong, this feeling tears you apart.

[Tak]

Hi New2AP, I wanted to tell you that there are some very interesting books that talk about our 'past lives' and the picture of existence in general. I've read the books by Michael Newton and Dolores Cannon, where through hundreds of hypnosis sessions that involve regressions to other lives, they've revealed a bit through their patients the mysteries of non-physical reality and how we relate to it. And these researchers who dedicated a significant part of their lives to investigating past lives have concluded that past lives are no longer important, what matters is the present. That is, the decisions you make now regarding your new challenges.

I believe it's not worth 'torturing' yourself over the past, thinking if you were a good or a bad person, carrying more weight on your shoulders than you already has. Michael Newton's books are more incomplete than Dolores', but she has revealed (just like other authors and people who study the subject) that time is an illusion and only exists from this 3D perspective, so there's no such thing as past or future life, and everything is happening at the same time, now. Also, our individual consciousness belongs to a larger soul 'Oversoul' that we're part of, and from which thousands of extensions (simultaneous lives) emerge and we experience at the same time. And each simultaneous life leads to multiple parallel lives, where we live different versions of our current life. Right now, you're only experiencing a small portion of your larger and broader consciousness. Complex, huh? That is why the issue of other lives is more complex than it seems. And I'm not asking anyone to believe it! You have to discover it for yourself for it to be valid. I've had some glimpses that confirm many of these things.

What I'm getting at is that you need to go beyond the 'good/bad' or 'reward/punishment' labels, look beyond the wall! What's important is to focus on the present moment and act from there.

As Xanth said, see what beliefs regarding how 'reality should be' (according to our conditioning or criteria) are leading you to those conclusions. Also, as he mentioned, try not to go against the flow of life. Maybe if a job isn't good, it's time to leave it and look for a new one, even if the pay is high. If you help people who don't reciprocate, and instead betray you, maybe it means they're not the right people to be around, and life itself is telling you to take different paths. But if, on the other hand, I feel like a victim and try to forcefully fit into a job or with people that aren't suitable, I'll take it as if nothing is going right. When in reality, life was doing me a favor by removing me from those situations. I'm not saying these examples are your case, it's just an illustration of how to flow with the opportunities that life gives us and learn to listen to its messages and signs.

If you still want to do a past-life regression, on Dolores Cannon's official website, there are first-level practitioners who offer free sessions, as well as more advanced ones who charge for their services.
The website is as follows, and there are practitioners all over the world. Just type in your country and city in the search bar, and they'll appear.
https://members.qhhtofficial.com/find-a-practitioner/?_ga=2.126892875.717648670.1740501514-1342569365.1738195507

You're worthy and valuable!

[tides2dust]

I believe God answers us, and we aren't always aware of those answers. We have to learn how to listen. I also believe we expect prayers to be answered in a specific way, and later conclude that an unanswered prayer was a blessing and answer in itself. I.E., not the way we expected. Whether you are aware of a past life or not, you can accept responsibility for your actions now. You do not have to fight with yourself for the way things are. But you can take the task of looking at your self and choose how you wish to engage with the way things are. Are you treating yourself with love? Are you forgiving when you can't understand? Have you ever behaved in a way you wish you hadn't? Have you ever tried doing something different than what your impulse demands?

Even though things that are happening to you may seem unfair, it may have nothing to do with a past life. If you wish to have insight, you must practice time in stillness. You can try 10 minutes every day, don't expect an answer to come to you. Just try to calm your thoughts for 10 minutes every day. It's hard to hear, or see things as they are when we are worried about fair or unfair when we compare our lives to others. Focus on your breathing and allow yourself to become more aware of the present. Become more aware of your breath, of how it makes you feel- of the thoughts entering your brain, whether or not you wish to entertain those thoughts. If you do this regularly, I believe you will strengthen your ability to sense information with your Heart.

Strengthen the relationship with your Heart, and answers will come. You have to believe in yourself, that nothing is impossible. For many of us, it is a practice. And you will find the Universe begins to respond in kind.

I wish you the best, and hope you find what you're looking for. 

[Xanth]

You know Xanth, I always accept what comes to me whether it is good or bad. But sometimes you cannot accept because you know how honest you were and it definitely feels unacceptable, not because of your ego or your perspective was wrong  because you know it cannot be against you. It feels very broken inside, its like you can accept everything even when there was not your fault, but not every time or for the one you know that you are not wrong, this feeling tears you apart.

Part of enlightenment is accepting EVERYTHING as it truly is.  You can't pick and choose what to accept, everything has a valuable lesson.

Without getting political here, I view what's going on in the US right now as a lesson in "you don't know what you have, until you lose it".  Many are seeing that - that's the positive I see in what's going on.  It's part of living during this time of huge transition which we live in today.  Once you see how something can serve you, you let it go - or at least you don't connect with it anymore.  I can still be engaged, but I'm engaged without an emotional connection to the situation. 

[LightBeam]

Great responses from everyone!
What I can add is that 100% anything that is affecting us directly is because of us not others. It is about each and everyone of us attracting situations and circumstances for lessons we need to learn. We have to release the judgment to others and ask "What do I believe about myself to have attracted this situation? What do I need to learn?" Then we have to listen inward. The answer will not come from a voice in our head spelling exactly what we need to do. No, it will come via intuition, and paying attention to synchronicities, signposts, etc. But we need to take accountability for our own beliefs that create our reality. Dont focus on others as they are just reflecting back to you your beliefs or serving you to see better what is your resequencing. If you dont think you align with their frequency then move away, and dont focus.

And seeing every negative situation through the lenses of benefits because of lessons, this in a positive or at least neutral way will eventually turn things around and there wont be any negative circumstances that you encounter for lessons that you have learned.

World events are perfect examples to test our response to what seem as negative events. But have we thought about how these events may actually benefit the world by serving as an eye opener, to look deep in our old systems and think of much needed core changes? It will take a big shake to trigger changes, otherwise we have gotten way too comfortable in our old ways, but they were not of good service. It was time to make changes but since they have not been initiated now we have created a severe force to get our attention. So, this is how we look at things from a positive perspective and have freedom and emotional capacity to follow our day to day joy   and passions.

[omcasey]

Hello,

I'm very much interested in knowing about my past life as my current situation is not what I expect in life to happen with me. I am not getting any answers to my question from the consciousness (GOD) which makes me frustrated and depressed and sometimes suicidal.

My purpose of knowing my past life is only to understand whether my present situation is related to my actions in my previous life.

I just want to know and accept anything bad i have done or what is making me struggle in this life.  Because when things does not work the way it should when I put honest efforts, whether it is related to job, relationship etc. I feel so much heart broken that i cannot explain.

I really want to know what kind of person I am? good or bad? why I am struggling when I do not hurt people, why things happen with me which I do not deserve.  I just want a normal life when I am not expecting much.

Can anyone tell me What is the best resource available for tapping into the past life? I beg your guidance please help....... please please... 

Hello, new2ap

Tell us more about what is happening. For instance, relative to 'not getting any answers' >>

How is it that you are opening to receive the reply to your question?

Are you sitting in meditation to receive? ( do you meditate? )
Are you looking in your dream state? ( do you practice dream recall and make daily logs? )
Are you doing regressions? - practicing techniques to enhance your recall?
Are you asking trusted sources such as experienced channelers?
Are you working at developing tools, skills of some kind? ( perhaps a scrying technique? ) to help bring the information through?

Let us know exactly HOW you are opening to receive.
WHAT your practices are and how often you sit to practice.

One thing that often gets by us when we are aiming ourselves at something in particular like this, is the realizing that in order to RECEIVE what is being requested, we must first be fit to receive it. This is the real work. Making ourselves fit to receive. It is something we can work on entire lifetimes. It is never so much that our query is not is not being answered, queries are ALWAYS answered. It is we, who do and/or do not make ourselves fit and available to receive that answer. Do you know what I mean? Our actual attention is needed. However, if first, we do not learn to hold still our attention, develop a single pointed focus, an unshakeable central nervous system, then how can we achieve the state in which data can be caught?

Working on all this, in itself is the far more rewarding thing.

Data is just data. - but I do understand you aiming yourself at it, and it will come with the appropriate work.

This is a worthy conversation to continue. Let's keep going.


Casey

[Adrian]

Hello,

I'm very much interested in knowing about my past life as my current situation is not what I expect in life to happen with me. I am not getting any answers to my question from the consciousness (GOD) which makes me frustrated and depressed and sometimes suicidal.

My purpose of knowing my past life is only to understand whether my present situation is related to my actions in my previous life.

First of all "time" does not actually exist - it is a simply human construct. So there can accordingly be no "past" lives or "re"incarnation as these suggest a linear progression which has no basis in fact. The process erroneously called "reincarnation" is actually that of concurrent "incarnations" or "lives", expressions of Higher Self,experienced on Earth or other planets in the eternal moment of now, the process of which is as follows:

We all have a "Higher Self" which is the lowest member of a hierarchy of Higher Selves extending all the way back to the "Highest Self" of God, Source. The lower Higher Selves wish to evolve Spiritually through this progression, but before it can do so needs to attain a necessary state of perfection at its own level - vibratory frequency. The way it accomplishes this is concurrently send numerous autonomous incarnations, or personalities, expressions of itself, to Earth and other planets, each of which is placed in such circumstances as either male or female in order to acquire a block of experience which contributes to the overall perfection of the Whole Higher Self. The combined experiences of all such personalities providing the Higher Self with the necessary level of perfection to continue inwards to higher vibratory frequencies, as amore perfected Eternal Spirit.

So you can be absolutely assured that there is no "past life" influencing you in your current life, and neither does "karma" exist in the way it is usually portrayed.

I just want to know and accept anything bad i have done or what is making me struggle in this life.  Because when things does not work the way it should when I put honest efforts, whether it is related to job, relationship etc. I feel so much heart broken that i cannot explain.

Your perceived "struggle" is entirely of your own making. We create our own experience through ongoing thoughts, feelings, emotions, imaginings etc which impresses the subjective, subconscious mind which in turn projects them into your life experience according to the intensity of your Belief. In your case your obvious belief is that a non-existent past life is influencing your life negatively

What you need to do therefore is to "cancel" these erroneous beliefs with its associated thoughts, feelings and emotions and replace them with positive ones consistent only with that which you DO wish to experience. The first step is to know, absolutely, that there is no "past life" affecting you in any way, thus freeing yourself of that belief.

I really want to know what kind of person I am? good or bad? why I am struggling when I do not hurt people, why things happen with me which I do not deserve.  I just want a normal life when I am not expecting much.

There is no "good" or "bad" - only experience. "Good" and "bad" are dualities created by the ego.  You cannot "do" anything to the material world, simply because in reality it has no basis in fact beyond a combined projection of humanity as a whole - it is effectively a dream or simulation. It is all fluid energy at a certain vibratory frequency influenced by the mind at both a personal and collective level. Again, you cannot "do" anything to the world and it cannot do anything to you. You are the unique creator of your own experience.

God, Source Loves EVERY human being unconditionally and infinitely no matter what. Like "karma" there is no judgemental God or retribution. To God, everything humans do is Perfect, and a valuable contribution in the return to our Divine Source from whence we came.

I realise this is a lot to take in, but once you do you can begin the joyous experience of creating the life of your dreams.

[Frostytraveler]

As many of you know, I have been blessed with having some of the most profound RTZ and Projection experiences that one could ask for. Many of which have Divine involvement, deceased involvement and astounding energy experiences. I understand the intricacies of all the spiritual theories discussed here. In all my travels and experiences, I personally, have not seen any evidence of manifestation. I still struggle with the fact that when "bad" things happen to us, they are our own making, and essentially our fault for manifesting them. I have had my share of unfortunate occurrences on this planet, most of which I most diligently tried to avoid or limit. Sometimes they come in waves, where I would say "there is definitely a bigger picture, this appears very well orchestrated and way beyond a mere coincidence". This has made me conclude that life here is lesson based, for the receiver of challenges and/or for the one doing the harm to create the challenge. I understand that we/our Higher Self evolves from the way we handle such challenges.

Where I have a difficult time assimilating the self-manifestation theory is putting it on the individual as creating such unfortunate circumstances. Lessons are one thing, but self creation/manifestation is more problematic for me to accept. Of course I could be wrong, as could be those that say we manifest everything. Perhaps there is a psychological component of some trying to maintain "control" of their lives by saying we have the ability to control our experiences?  Who knows for certain. In time maybe I will agree, but for now I just take it all in and see where the chips fall. I do wonder if others struggle with accepting this theory?

If someone is fortunate to have a life of waves of good fortune, and the individual ends up being "conditioned" to believe he/she is the cause of it, then I could see how this theory would initially arise. At the same time the one who has had challenges, despite large and very competent attempts to avoid them, then I could see the opposite theory arising. Perhaps some would say it must be lessons, perhaps some would blame it on karma, some would say God must be disappointed with them for some reason, some would say life is a sea of random chaos etc...

There is an old Japanese proverb that says "Don't fret over matters that couldn't be helped". Implying that many of life's experiences are simply beyond our control. Why does the Universe send these experiences to some but not others, who knows... especially in light of the fact that often times the nicest kindest souls get the most challenges sent their way.

Lots to think about...

[Adrian]

I fully understand what you are saying Frosty, and there is so much to consider. We can say beyond any possible doubt that we can express or "create" our own experience, positive or negative by impressing it on the subconscious mind intentionally or unintentionally through thoughts, feelings and beliefs, and by the use of affirmations, imagination and so on. We, or at least, can say that nothing can appear in our experience without a mental pattern corresponding with it, a mental pattern that could have been lodged in the subconscious mind for years. Are we sent lessons to try us? I would say not, the only caveat being we do "incarnate" into situations - social, gender, location etc where the Higher Self or Eternal Spirit knows is the most ideal for our purpose on Earth or other planets.  Also, people tend to immediately label events and situations as "good", "bad" etc. which are dualities in the way the ego perceives things without knowledge of the bigger picture. Earth is a very "trying" planet to incarnate on which is why the Higher Self chooses Earth as a fast track opportunity for evolution, and one which only few venture to take. The nicest kindest souls are often the most advanced Spiritually and can handle much more than others who are less so. While it can seem perplexing, it is often best not to think about it.

[LightBeam]

I still struggle with the fact that when "bad" things happen to us, they are our own making, and essentially our fault for manifesting them.

To me this is one very clear test we have set up. When we put judgement in the equation, things spin into a very negative direction. Learning how to see "bad" things as beneficial for our growth is a major key. Then there will be no "fault". Putting blame and fault either on ourselves or others keeps us spinning into low frequencies.
But to see the whole thing from a different perspective that makes sense we need to get out of the 3D level view and see creation and manifestation from the level of the higher self. That is a lesson and a test in itself.
I can clearly see the patterns in my own life and others how we perceive our personal realities based who we THINK we are.  I dont blame myself for my challenges. I take responsibilities for having chosen them and created them, but I know that I must have chosen/created them wither on a conscious of higher level for very good reasons. Then I take the approach to ask what do I have to believe is true about myself, what do I need to learn that have manifested this challenge. I never direct the judgement to others. They are reflections of my doing (conscious or higher). And I notice when I realize and adjust my perspective, take actions to change my mindset, take actions to change something about myself, etc then the challenge goes away. Nothing else makes sense to me. If it was otherwise, then existence is based on randomness which to me does not make sense.

[Frostytraveler]

I just want to clarify something LB. I do not blame myself or others for life's challenges. So I am in agreement, as I look at them as life lessons for learning and evolvement. I just question the amount of control we have over manifesting our life path. Some experiences appear completely out of my control and is more the baggage or failings of third parties. As always, I have an open mind so I will monitor this throughout the remainder of my life.

[LightBeam]

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to the ego And that's exactly what our spirits knew our characters will perceive through the ego. And it is one of the tests to see through the "appearance". But take your time, dont force to believe anything others say. Our believes constantly evolve. Just know that all is well and some day it will make sense.

[Frostytraveler]

Joe Dispenza's thoughts on Manifesting:

[LightBeam]

Joe Dispenza's thoughts on Manifesting:

Yes, basically we can not experience what we are not the vibration of. But we manifest every minute of every day, we manifest what we are the vibration of. We dont have to learn how to manifest because we are already doing it. The question is what are we manifesting and why.
Another  energy law is what you put out is what you get back (but this is not a punishment or karma, just realignment triggered by us, not anything external). But what you put out is not only be mean of actions but also beliefs. Someone may be the nicest person ever always helping others, never harming anyone. But if they think of themselves as not being worthy or important, not powerful, not loveable, not deserving, not capable, not strong, etc.,  then they will create like events and negative reactions/reflections from others.

[Frostytraveler]

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[Adrian]

Yes, basically we can not experience what we are not the vibration of. But we manifest every minute of every day, we manifest what we are the vibration of. We dont have to learn how to manifest because we are already doing it.

Absolutely, and this why being mindful, self aware of ongoing thoughts, feelings, emotions, imaginings etc is so important. The subjective, subconscious mind does not filter and categorise these into useful, not useful etc, or consider the effect on the originator as positive or negative, it will rather accept such thoughts, feelings, emotions, imaginings as they are, and express they into the experience of the person. This is why everyone is the product of a lifetime of such thoughts, feelings, emotions, imaginings etc without realising it or understanding why "things happen" to them.

By being constantly mindful of thoughts, feelings, emotions, imaginings etc, and only accepting those consistent with the desired experience, will they experience the life and experiences they most desire.