you're incapable of thinking outside of that paradigm at the moment.
Wow! That is a very judgemental statement. I suppose I didn't express my thoughts properly. Allow me to correct that.
I am far from confining anything within the "gender paradigm" or the physical manifestations of "penis" and "vagina."
What I said earlier is that there are types of energy flowing through the bodies and the terms "masculine" and "feminine" are merely generalizing descriptions of these types created merely for easing the expression of knowledge related to them. One cannot operate without the other as they complete each other. Let's take it down to the material plane just for the purpose of easing the imagination. A penis cannot produce a baby without a vagina. A vagina cannot get impregnated and develop a new lifeform without a seed.
Same applies to other aspects of our beings, one of such being society and its norms. As people who are aware of the underlying nature of reality (some more than others and that's perfectly fine) we are somewhat obligated to be able to work with this social aspect in a way that helps us and others achieve our goals and empower each other. For doing this, one should be able to manipulate the flow of these masculine and feminine energies (again, these are simply generalized terms) according to the social situation at present, thus being able to produce a desired outcome of that situation. Ideally, one will have achieved a balance between these energies that "works like charm" in most situations, with only minor changes required from time to time. I'll give myself as an example to help clarify my thoughts. I have managed to achieve a balance of the energies flowing through my bodies (physical, etherical, astral, mental, etc.) that allows me to imply a strong presence, which in the eyes of the "normie" that lacks true understanding appears as a very masculine person (masculine this time being the gender paradigm). Yet, the "feminine" energies are just enough to add warmth and compassion to that strong presence, thus taking me away from a "barbaric" appearance in the eyes of the so called "normie" (I like calling them autopilots

), but are low enough to prevent appearing feminine (the "gender paradigm" type).
To summarize in hope of final clarification - the energies flowing through the bodies have different vibrations (polarities) and manifest differently on the different planes of existence. When they manifest on the mental plane they also reflect on the physical plane. Example in relation to this whole thread - a warm and gentle mental manifestation reflects on the material plane and changes your image in others to be perceived as feminine.
And finally, I have never said that I give a flying f*ck if people approve who I am and neither should anyone else with a little self respect. This whole sexuality thing was simply a small part that did not manifest properly according to who and what I am (my whole being) and needed fixing. What I am writing here is the knowledge I have gathered along my path as it is understood by me, a variation of the countless manifestations of The All.
To everyone reading this, please extract what is beneficial to you and let go of what is not, without judgment.
As for you Xanth, I hope you expand on your statements and share the knowledge you have. I believe I can learn this and that from you.

Much Love!