Hi, I am new to these forums, etc. I have had vibrations since early childhood and have maany many OBEs (up until recently, I had no idea these were 'vibrations' or 'obe's', I just thought that humming lead to being able to fly and be awake in my dreams).
Anyway, very rarely have I struggled beyond the vibrations, but when I have, it is because I was trying to force it (My head would get stuck). What works best for me is not to try (as I tend to do that with my physical body) but rather just relax and think fly, and voila, i am flying around. It is like i just think about the place I want to go, and I go there, I do not have to think about the actual flying. For me, I have always found focusing on the place I want to be is when I have the best experiences. I have an awful lot to learn, and am the antithesis of expert on these topics, but regardless, I hope my own experiences are able to provide you with some assistance.
Anyway, very rarely have I struggled beyond the vibrations, but when I have, it is because I was trying to force it (My head would get stuck). What works best for me is not to try (as I tend to do that with my physical body) but rather just relax and think fly, and voila, i am flying around. It is like i just think about the place I want to go, and I go there, I do not have to think about the actual flying. For me, I have always found focusing on the place I want to be is when I have the best experiences. I have an awful lot to learn, and am the antithesis of expert on these topics, but regardless, I hope my own experiences are able to provide you with some assistance.