Ok so this is not new to me, but sometimes I have control of this. I have started dating a new person and she has pulled herself into my dreams and she says its blank and its almost like a void then I boot her out. I also cry and fight in my sleep and I don't remember anything. She finally asked me the other day if I could astral project, I said yes. She said when I am asleep she can't feel my presence or my feelings and its almost like I'm in a void all night. She thinks I am doing the astral project automatically to help coop with my nightmares of the past..... is it even possible to do it automatically and not know you are doing it?