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Well first, you haven't told us your dream.  Secondly, don't you think it's pretty obvious that you'd feel some kind of guilt for dating someone while trying to seperate from your husband?  

While not knowing the content of your dream (because you've not said), I think it's obvious that anyone in your position would feel some guilt.  It's not wrong to go on with your life, but you must understand the consequences for your children.  Children don't understand why we sometimes lose love for someone, especially when that someone is their father.  

Was it a premonition?  Well, it'd have to be pretty damn specific to be a premonition.  If the details of your dream only suggested that your son has some problem with your new boyfriend, then that is only your own guilt.  So, no.  You did not have a premonitory dream.  You just feel guilty.  Sorry to be so honest, but that's just the way it is.  Maybe you'll get lucky though, and some other member of this forum will play to some fantasy you might have about ESP and you being special, but, in my opinion, that's just not the case.  I know you probably hate my opinion.  Sorry, but you're just experiencing the wonderful honesty of the so-called "unconcious" mind at work.

Kozzi

Relate it to something he might understand. Like a remote control car.

If he watches Dragon Ball Z, you could try to relate in terms of Gotenks' Super Ghost Kamikaze Attack. "It's like Gotenks' Super Ghost Kamikaze Attack, only instead of each one having its own personality, you still control it, it doesn't blow up, and no one else can see it."