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Hello Everyone,

I am relatively new here, but have to say there is a lot of fighting on this site and general innane chatting that does not pertain to psychic self-defense, but is mostly about personalities. I am sure many won't like my post, but it must be said.

For some of us, the problems we come to this site with are very serious. We seek answers and support. Having to wade through topics where in the end one only finds members fighting is a turn off. Some posts have real merit, but its difficult to wade through all the other stuff.

Do you know why this entity stays with you (as in what it gets from this relation)?
Since you talk about "Astral Lover"; do you have sex with him or is it just platonic?

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    First off, to be perfectly honest, this sounds a bit odd to me.  I've never heard of anything that fits your description and the logic of such a creature being interested in a human is a bit soft.  However, as I have the hard way (repeatedly) that the statement "That's not possible!" is a gross generalization I will proceed under the assumption that you are being forthright to the best of your knowledge and ability.  I don't mean any offense by this pretext but it would be dishonest for me to proceed otherwise.

    This really is a fascinating conundrum.  I'll offer a few suggestions below but first off you really need to rid yourself of three things.


    The first is that you need to really make a firm decision about whether you really want him gone.  Even if you think you have don't check this off the list just yet.  There are many undertones in your post that strongly suggest a lack of conviction.  Besides the obvious assumptions that can be drawn from a situation that feels good now and who's negatives are delayed in their manifestation.  


    When step one is complete the next thing to do is to take a few (hundred) steps back and attempt to view the situation objectively.  Another issue I see is a glorification of the assailant.  This is common in hostage situations (which you seem to be in) and results (theoretically) from the social hardwiring of the human brain.  In a situation where we feel helpless we immediately become emotionally dependant (and hence attached) to whomever we see as powerful.  (ex. parent-child relationship, beaten wife syndrome)

    You obviously feel a bit helpless and you certainly seem to see what's-his-face as powerful so it is easy to see how the contrast could exaggerate his power in your eyes.  Take a hard look at his strengths and weaknesses, everyone and everything has soft spots.  Also be aware that if he/she/it becomes erratic (acting without apparent cause) your headed in the right direction.  Desperation of the enemy is the surest sign of approaching victory.

    It may also be useful to note that parasites are highly specialized organisms and as such, are not terribly effective at preying on humans. We're far too mercurial.


    The third issue I see is your defeatism.  This goes back to step one but I believe that this is probably the most vital action you will take and as such I don't mind reiterating.  I know you're frustrated, I know you're tired, you have every right to be.  What's-his-name sounds like he's very good at what he does and is obviously working with a great deal more information than you but you have to realize that he is a parasite.

    Think about the animal kingdom for a moment.  If you consider every example of parasitic behavior (aka animals that do not immediately kill their prey) you will find that when successful these organisms have accomplished one of two things.  Either they have managed to fill a niche in which they benefit their host in some way (i.e. the bacteria in you digestive track) or they have managed to trick their host in to not resisting them (tapeworms, ticks, mosquitoes).  Not one example I can think of involves the parasite being stronger than the host.  In fact, most of the time it would be a simple thing for the host to kill the parasite, if they could only figure out how.


    Ahh, I'm horribly late.  I will have to finish this post later.  If you wouldn't mind answering a few quick questions...  Your age, what type of place you live in (rural, urban, suburban, etc.), how many people you live with and how busy your life is it would help me to present some viable options.  For example if you have 2 kids, a husband long periods of isolation and quiet (oh beloved silence) aren't terribly feasible.

    Also let me know if any of this resonates or if you have any questions.  Talk to you later.

Ossian
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