Have you tried waking in the early morning? My experiences are pretty similar to yours, except I have projected a couple dozen times but then half the time i just can't see anything or move much. however it does seem to improve over time but sometimes it seems too damn slow!
About the middle of the night stuff-I just wake, go to the bathroom, do some energy stuff, fall asleep, the wake while projecting.I think doing this bypasses some of our fears around obe's, but maybe it accounts for lack of control since there is dream imagery going on too. I know other people have written their formulas, so if you could use the search function on this site to find them.
About the middle of the night stuff-I just wake, go to the bathroom, do some energy stuff, fall asleep, the wake while projecting.I think doing this bypasses some of our fears around obe's, but maybe it accounts for lack of control since there is dream imagery going on too. I know other people have written their formulas, so if you could use the search function on this site to find them.