Quote from: nickspry on June 09, 2010, 06:07:55
Another approach to this could be to use a delay tactic instead of attempting complete suppression. The next time you find yourself in a scenario such as the one you described, say to yourself that you can come back to this scenario, but only after completing x and y (any other tasks). This should have the effect of immediately diverting your attention away from erotic stimulation and give added incentive to complete those other ultimately more productive tasks and maybe even extend the projection time. If then after completing your other tasks the projection is terminated by a sexual encounter it's no big deal.
I've found this general approach to work best for me also. My first thought when I read about your dillemma is to decide ahead of time that when ever this happens be ready to pull a Neo and fly straight up.....and into a cool place that you've already chosen where no girls are allowed, heh, heh.
Once you've succeeded at this a few times it will probably give you a greater sense that you have options besides simply "resisting" something--which can cause a sense of struggle and is disruptive while in subjective states of consciousness. Eventually I think that if you are more comfortable because you know that you have choices it won't be so difficult to face the temptresses.