Quote from: Mydral on July 10, 2007, 05:37:11
DH... I am not a Christian man but I had to listen to a priest once..
Sounds painful!

Quote from: Mydral on July 10, 2007, 05:37:11
and he gave a pretty good message: Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself
Most Christians do this: "Thou shalt love thy neighbour" and forget the last part.
So here is the thing, if you love others unconditionally and just do that its not what Jesus intended. You need some self-centerdness to love yourself. If you don't you might do anything others tell you to do (I dont mean crimes or so, just like getting up and bringing them food, lending them money,things like that).... this does not make you feel good... it makes you feel used, hence you do not love yourself.
Life is always about balance between two forces.... hence balance this too. If you just do one of these two things you will fail so to say.
Yes, you are right on. There has to be balance.
Unless you have a good self-image -- that you are a child of God -- that all of the good of the Universe lives in you by God's Spirit -- then you have nothing to offer others. You have to take care of yourself spiritually, emotionally, physically, etc.
But I think that's different than a fundamental self-centeredness that says, "Screw everyone else, I will do what I want." This is what the NT would equate with "demonic". Jesus talked about a kind of love -- AGAPE in the NT Greek -- that has to do with choosing to set the self aside at certain moments to care for someone else. This is a concept that is also found in other world religions, such as Hinduism, Buddhism, and in Greek philosophy.
Only one who is truly secure in herself (and her place in God) can give herself away. You can't out give God. Ironically, whatever you give freely comes back in some way. This is a biblical principle (Luke 6:37, 2 Corinthians 9). People that are basically self-centered never learn that. Their focus is usually on their immediate gratification, and what comes back to them is an echo of their greed, lust, violence or whatever. The Bible has its own version of Karma!
Yes, balance. DH