Keeping my mind on breathing has never helped me at all. I have the same problem clearing my mind, and I'm still learning to do it. I think it's important to learn - I've tried meaningless mantras ("walrus red prime think"), thoughts on my breathing, counting with each breath to 10, trying to occupy my thoughts with an imaginary scene, just listening intently like I'd seen lightning and was waiting for the thunder.
None of it worked as well as I'd liked - I did find that the more relaxed you are, the easier it is to clear your mind. It's also easy to "just listen" if you have entrainment going. The breath counting worked once or twice, but then became ineffective (same with mantras). Imagining a place is usually a practice in frustration.
The easiest thing for me is, if you notice your mind wandering, gently bring it back. It'll wander a lot. Don't get angry at yourself! But build that discipline, and I think you'll find that you'll make progress. Not as fast as you might like, but be patient. Mastery over the mind is not developed easily.
None of it worked as well as I'd liked - I did find that the more relaxed you are, the easier it is to clear your mind. It's also easy to "just listen" if you have entrainment going. The breath counting worked once or twice, but then became ineffective (same with mantras). Imagining a place is usually a practice in frustration.
The easiest thing for me is, if you notice your mind wandering, gently bring it back. It'll wander a lot. Don't get angry at yourself! But build that discipline, and I think you'll find that you'll make progress. Not as fast as you might like, but be patient. Mastery over the mind is not developed easily.