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Thanks Nay. I wasn't even trying to AP, just trying to sleep. Plus I never had my usual exit sensations... the noise I heard was very different to the noise I normally hear when I'm about to AP... (please note, that although I've experienced the sensations, but I've not actually consciously gone OOB yet).

I've been told I have some kind of psychic ability, and I've suspected it myself. So that kind of confirms some sort of psychic activity is going on to me.

Yeah, which isn't a bad thing... LOL

How confusing! LOL

I can tell you that both abstaining from sex in all forms and having sex (solo or otherwise) drains my energy... must be a knack to it or maybe everyone is different?

My sexual appetite has increased, but it's a solo thing rather than wanting to be with someone physically. I'm 22, and I do know the difference between true love and just sex. I just don't feel comfortable with it at all, and being with someone physically would make me feel even worse!

I don't get drunk or anything like that, on't eat a lot of chocolate etc, I am eating OK, but I can't sleep well, and I keep thinking "I just want to go home".

It's bloody horrible, that's all I can say to describe it. []

How do I raise the energy to my heart chakras? Please don't tell me to try NEW, as it isn't very practical for me.

Thanks.

Life does go on. But it changes your life, in ways that you don't want it o sometimes. But it can also teach you a lot about yourself and life.

Thank you for sharing your experiences with us. It really touched me. I have experienced suicide and attempted suicide in my family/friends as well, and it's a terrible thing to go through for these who are left behind. You have my regards.

Gemma

I hope you was being sarcastic... it was a dreadful dream... one that has no meaning to me.

Interesting. What evidence is there to support this theory?

Hmmm. seems a reasonable enough explaination when it comes to poltergeists.

What about evil negs... like demons and the like? And Astral Wildlife?

UPDATE:

Well I can remember some of my dream that I had just before waking up. I dreamt that I was a man, who had got run over by a maniac. It was very dark where I was, I was with a friend, and we were out skating. Then I can remember being run over by a light blue (or was it white...?) car... an old fashioned one that people used to drive in the 60's/70's. I had a massive pain in my stomach area, and was throwing up. The next thing I recall is being in hospital in agony, and being fed some food. Each time I swallowed, my stomach hurt like Hell. there were some people around me, they seemed familiar but I can't place them. I said to a nurse "Gee you're feeding me far too much food!", and she replied that I needed it.

That's all.

Can you all just stop attacking each other? It solves nothing.

BaroqueOboe123, we've given you some advice, now it's up to you to decide what to do. Good luck in getting the help you need.

I didn't say he was.  Yeah sure he possibly would tell her to see a doctor, but he might be able to advise on the AP/OBE (or whatever you want to call it) side of it. Please be a bit more open minded about it.

quote:Originally posted by Smashking


we're hoping that maybe ROBERT BRUCE could comment and maybe shed a little light on the situation, he was reccomended by someone on AstralForums.  also, after sarah goes to college (in a few months), we will try to contact linn (the hypnotherapist) for a past-life regression.  contacting those two professionals may shed great light on the situation, and my even directly lead us to some solution.

we thank you all for your support.

sincerely,
Quinn

Looks like you need to contact Robert Bruce himself by email. I did post on how to email him.

Good luck.

quote:I suggestd reading 'The Power of Now' by Eckhart Tolle; gives very good advice on getting out of your head and reapportioning consciousness.  The energy increase should be automatic - I found it so.  []

Thanks for the suggestion, I will get the book soon.

Yes, I agree, you need to be open-minded, and not expect what happens to others to happen to you, after all, everyone has different experiences, but on the other hand, it is useful to learn certain things, or to ask questions about something that you're not sure of, I find, personally, it's good to do that. You just need to balance these things out, and learn not to expect too much from what happens (or what could happen) to you.

quote:Originally posted by Blackstream

I disagree with you 100%.  First of all, one of the reasons I come here is to read and share experiences for motivational and inspirational purposes.  Take that away from me and I'd be 2 steps away from out the door for good.  

Second of all, AP is supposed to be another plane of reality.  If someone hearing other people's travels makes it less "real" then I'd have to call into question if ap is real at all.  You make it sound like a lucid dream, i.e., what you expect is what you get, rather than what is there is what you get.  If this is true then this invaliates your request anyways because we aren't actually APing.  I'd share lucid dream experiences anyways because hearing about other people's dreams tends to expand rather than contract my mind to the possibilities.  Also, I'd think sharing ap experiences would do the same.

So, in conclusion, no.

Agreed. Mar10fl, there are other things other than, but in some way relating to AP that people need to learn. I'm sure you can work it out for yourself what these things are.

Gee, that sounds scary. I read these threads. I hope you get the help you need.

Has anyone got Robert Bruce's email address for this girl?

EDIT:

I've just taken a look at the list of members, under R and found Robert Bruce's email address.

All you got to do is to click on the Members link at the top of the page, find Robert Bruce under R, and click on his name. That should bring up his information page. Just click on the email link.

Hope that helps.

quote:Originally posted by James S

I'm in a similar situation G3MM4.
In my case though it is due to a condition my wife has been suffering that has prevented us from having sex for the past 4 years.
During this time we've gotten married, and are living a very happy life together.

It was a question of do I allow my need for sex to become more important than love? I answered no.

I do however, like you, seek relief periodically, but this I feel as you would describe as increased sexual activity, I might describe as increased sexual tension. A while back I read an excellent book on meditation and stress reduction techniques, and the author's recommendation for the best cure for sexual tension is a good orgasm.

Well that's one bit of sage advise I'm not about to argue with! []

I don't feel that my sexuality is suffering at all because of this issue, as I am neither going off looking for women of negotiable affection to sort this out, nor am I repressing my sexuality in any way. I also do not believe I am interrupting my energy flow or causing any problems with my energy body. I have an abundance of energy available, and that energy I am learning to channel through my heart centre for healing. I have experienced energy increases both with and without sex, so I feel that the energy side of things is what you make of it yourself.

I can see that there is a very definite link between sexuality and spirituality, and that is very simply  - LOVE!

Love is the one key element that I believe is crucial to both. Sexuality without love is likely to lead to perversion and debauchery, and spirituality without love is...well...NOT spirituality. Probably Dogma would be the best description.

Regards,
James.

Hmmm... you could be right in that I should describe it as sexual tension.... I'm not going to argue with that. []

You say you have experienced energy increases with or without sex... I haven't had an energy increase in a very long time. My energy levels aren't very high at all.

But I agree with your reasoning about the link between sexuality ans spirituality.

quote:Originally posted by Mystic Cloud

I think it would be very healthy for many to have 2-3 weeks
of complete celibacy as it really changes your viewpoint of
the whole thing. And no you do not get more horny or an intensified sexual drive. It is quite the opposite, it actually
reduces.

I have to disagree with this because i haven't had sex with a partner for about five years. I made that decision myself, to prove to myself that i could do without sex. This came after being sexually active far more than what was good for me. There is more to it than that but I won't go into details.

Now, I don't find it difficult to abstain from sex with a partner, as long as I please myself occasionally. Having said that, I am capable of being completely celibate for weeks at a time, and have done so at times in the past. But this doesn't increase my energy levels in anyway. I still feel tired and weak, no matter whether I masturbate or not.

This could vary from person to person, but I find that if I don't masturbate from time to time, I actually get a stronger sex drive. (I'm lucky enough to have more than enough willpower to abstain from sex with a partner.) When this happens I get increased sexual activity (masturbation), much like short bursts of sexual activity, i.e doing it two or three times a week instead of my normal couple of times a month.

I hope you made some sense of what I've said above.

quote:But if we truely do choose our parents, then every pregnacy weather the child is concieved in a solid loving marriage or up a back alley (pun intended ) behined a club on a saturday night, (what a beutiful picture im painting lol) the soul of that person chose their own circumstaces and birth parents to siute their own needs, so I would guess pretty every act of penetrative sex must have a place in the grand design of things.

I think we do choose our own parents and our experiences/circumstances while we are preparing to be reborn. I've come to this conclusion after reading some good books written by people who have died and then came back, because they hadn't accomplished their goals.

If you wish to know the titles of these books, please PM me and I'll be happy to oblige.

And yes, again, it's cause and effect. if you must insist on having sex, then you could expect the possibility of falling pregnant as a result. I'm sure they taught you guys that in
Sex Ed. []

Well... I have recently woken up, and I do remember some parts of my dream that I was having just before I woke up. Although it's  bit vague.

The irst thing I remember about my dream was that I was in bed with someone (gee... why does sex have to come into it...?), I'm not going in to details about what I was doing in bed! LOL

Mum and I were due to move house (We are thinking about moving house sometime soon...), and anyway, I was in bed with this guy who seemed familiar... I can't place who he is though. We fell asleep. The next thing, my aunty (who I haven't seen for more than ten years in real life) comes in and wakes me up. She tells me that it's time to get up and get ready to move house. I recall having a strong mixture of distrust and dislike for her. (In real-life this is true.)

Then I can remember talking to the guy I was sleeping with, and getting intimate again, but kept getting interupted by my aunt, which really irritated me.

I don't really remember much after that, as I kept momentarily waking up, then falling back to sleep, falling straight back into the same dream. Then I can remember watching a movie, and showing it to someone (a man) who got angry with me about it... not sure why exactly...

Then I woke up properly as I needed the loo.

I think the reason why my aunty was in the dream is because the area we want to move to is fairly close to where my aunty lives.

Any thoughts?

Hi

I'm from the UK too. Welcome to the forums. []

Gemma

UPDATE:

Nothing to update, couldn't remember any of my dreams today. Bah!

I realise that Archangel Michael might not answer my question for various reasons but I'd like to know two things, does he know if there is a particular reason(s) why my uncle contacted me twice in my dreams, and why did he hint at what would happen to me in the future?

I couldn't remember any of my dreams last night. Also I have been experiencing extreme exhausion for the last couple of weeks. Wonder if that has anything to do with this subject?