With regards to the books of sexual energy cultivation by Mantak Chia, the latest one in the series is Sexual Reflexology: The Tao of Love and Sex (very much for couple though also interesting section for single). www.universal-tao.com is the site to order the book if can't obtain from other more convinent sources. While on the subject of books, one called acupressure for lovers by Michael Reed may of be interest.
Been taught by Mantak Chia instructors (a couple)in the sexual energy cultivation. The male instructor told us that it took a long while before energetic orgasm without the ejaculation to feel complete. That is, individually, we have a lot blockages on the lower back to be resolved. Once those areas are opened up, he no longer feel something is missing without ejaculation. Before that, even though purely energetic orgasm is satisfactory but the feeling of something is missing lingers.
Been taught by Mantak Chia instructors (a couple)in the sexual energy cultivation. The male instructor told us that it took a long while before energetic orgasm without the ejaculation to feel complete. That is, individually, we have a lot blockages on the lower back to be resolved. Once those areas are opened up, he no longer feel something is missing without ejaculation. Before that, even though purely energetic orgasm is satisfactory but the feeling of something is missing lingers.