different methods work for different people, experiment with each one, see what part of each method works for you and doesnt work for you and sort of create your own custom method that helps you the most. No harm in trying them out aye you never know =).
The method i used when i first astral projected was the method where you shift your conciousness to a point in front of you, i forget who exactly thought up that method but yeah =P. This takes up a lot of energy to accomplish though and can be difficult to do more then once without a few days meditation and rest, but you can give it a go and see how it works for you =) it might work out to be easier for you and require less effort.
As for meeting your friend in the astral, this is something you should both think about once you have managed to project a few times and can maintain your projection without falling into an astral pool. it can be difficult to project and view the physical world with an imbalanced mind as stray thoughts can lead to the creation of an astral pool and you will not be seeing physical "reality" anymore.
If you want to meet i suggest that the more accomplished projector of the two of you meets the other outside their body so that you will find eachother as soon as you have both projected.
I have done this many times before with my friend =)
don't lose that dedication! it is key to entering the astral, if you don't go at every attempt like you are determined to get there, then sensations are the best your gonna get =).
Experiment, have fun, good luck and let us know how things develop!
The method i used when i first astral projected was the method where you shift your conciousness to a point in front of you, i forget who exactly thought up that method but yeah =P. This takes up a lot of energy to accomplish though and can be difficult to do more then once without a few days meditation and rest, but you can give it a go and see how it works for you =) it might work out to be easier for you and require less effort.
As for meeting your friend in the astral, this is something you should both think about once you have managed to project a few times and can maintain your projection without falling into an astral pool. it can be difficult to project and view the physical world with an imbalanced mind as stray thoughts can lead to the creation of an astral pool and you will not be seeing physical "reality" anymore.
If you want to meet i suggest that the more accomplished projector of the two of you meets the other outside their body so that you will find eachother as soon as you have both projected.
I have done this many times before with my friend =)
don't lose that dedication! it is key to entering the astral, if you don't go at every attempt like you are determined to get there, then sensations are the best your gonna get =).
Experiment, have fun, good luck and let us know how things develop!