Hi Jeff
Just a few thoughts. I am also married and for about 1 year did not tell her or anyone. I told a Christian Minister and he dismissed it as fantasy and told me he thought I was having a subconcious desire to be someone important and was making the whole thing up.
All though I have told my wife and she believes me and is mildly interested it is also becoming a bit of a contention in our relationship. It is as if she feels a bit sort of afraid that I will just "fly away" some day or go die in my sleep. It is a interesting observation that people who have OBEs also seem to get strenght and stamina spiritual as well as mental to endure. I say endure becourse allthough it is a wonderful experience it can at times be very intense. Others may not have the same strenght as they do not have to do the battle so to speak.
As your day so shall your strenght be
I think that if I was to re do it I would be much more gradual and careful how I relate and make sure I did not give her any worries about me. I had a keeper of the thresh hold experience early on wich was terrifying and I told her. Bad idea[
].I think that was too much for her. I think it would be wise to proceed carefully and with love and wisdom. It is a hard burden to carry, when someone you love are engaged in activities you do not understand and have no power over, and it can make people very fearfull.
Honesty is of course the best policy but maybe a remark and let her ask questions and certainly making it a gradual thing , rather than, "Honey I just wanna tell you that I leave my body at night and fly around the city and ....I just thought I would let you know[
].
All the best
Mustardseed
Just a few thoughts. I am also married and for about 1 year did not tell her or anyone. I told a Christian Minister and he dismissed it as fantasy and told me he thought I was having a subconcious desire to be someone important and was making the whole thing up.
All though I have told my wife and she believes me and is mildly interested it is also becoming a bit of a contention in our relationship. It is as if she feels a bit sort of afraid that I will just "fly away" some day or go die in my sleep. It is a interesting observation that people who have OBEs also seem to get strenght and stamina spiritual as well as mental to endure. I say endure becourse allthough it is a wonderful experience it can at times be very intense. Others may not have the same strenght as they do not have to do the battle so to speak.
As your day so shall your strenght be
I think that if I was to re do it I would be much more gradual and careful how I relate and make sure I did not give her any worries about me. I had a keeper of the thresh hold experience early on wich was terrifying and I told her. Bad idea[

Honesty is of course the best policy but maybe a remark and let her ask questions and certainly making it a gradual thing , rather than, "Honey I just wanna tell you that I leave my body at night and fly around the city and ....I just thought I would let you know[

All the best
Mustardseed