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Many times when people get married, they do it by swearing by whatever it is they hold sacred to love this one to the exclusion of others and never forsaking them. What does that say about us if we violated that kind of a pact?

Sorry, but adultery is wrong no matter how it is "justified". If one wishes to become involved with another person, at least break the connection with the first person before dishonouring them by being with the second.

There is nothing wrong with admiring other people. It is only natural and I think its part our biological make up. But if we are going to act out every impulse we have, then that isn't saying much for us as intelligent beings is it?

Thanks Zanate. Your advice makes perfect sense. Giving them a negative confrontational response would only be counterproductive.

My wife had noticed a big change in my aura since I've been worrying about it; saying it was fluctuating alot. Makes sense, as I haven't exactly been sleeping well since. Tonight I'm going to try your advice. I've got a good feeling about it.

By the way, what are these dark astral beings exactly? Quite a few times I've found that I find myself awake but can't move and I have this dark shadowy presence hovering over me and pining me down. I've learned how to deal with THEM, but I'm wondering, are the two are somehow related?

cg

I've had quite a few experiences with this and I find I'm getting better at dealing with it.

One particular time I found, as usual, that I couldn't move and was being pinned down by the glare of this malevolent evil shadowy presence. Tried as I might, I couldn't moved out from beneath the piercing stare. But for some reason, I don't know why, I called out my wife's name and I was able to snap out of it. When I woke up my wife wanted to know why I was mumbling her name.

My wife is the anchor in my life. I believe that my connection with her broke me out of it. Try thinking about the one thing in your life that gives you the most meaning. If you try that, you may find that there is nothing that the shadow can do to hold you.

I really need help. Since I was a small child I've been having flying dreams; very lucid, exhilarating ones. I've been doing as much research as I can and discovered that I've been unconsciously projecting myself astrally. Since then, I've been trying to do it on a conscious level and have been somewhat successful at times.

On a few of the more recent occasions I've had the deep and distinct impression that I was being followed and monitored by beings that had nothing but good will towards me.

But a few days ago I had a VERY bad experience. I was going along and these dark, black beings that resembled disjointed balls were following me to my side and back. I couldn't remember what they they were saying but I do know it was vulgar, insulting, and demeaning. The one thing that I could make out from them was that basically, I was not going to be protected forever and eventually they would get me.

It was a very frightening experience. I almost quit ever trying to project again because I don't want to go through that again. However, I'm learning so much about myself and other than that incident, I've been at such peace with myself; more than I've ever been.

I'm not asking for protection. I want to stand up for myself and be assertive by learning to protect myself. But I don't know where to start.

Can anyone help?

Hi, I'm brand new here, so I'll be brief - for now, lol.

I'm coming to terms with OBE and projecting astrally. I've been able to do it for as long as I can remember, even as a small child. I always thought my very lucid and frequent dreams of flying were just that, dreams.  I never realized what it truly was. Only recently I've been able to embrace it through research and personal growth. *sigh* It feels as if I'm going to need a lot of guidance.

Anyway, its great to be on board. See you out there!

cg