I have been attempting to have a obe for a few months now.I am still having a problem with staying awake.However nowadays I am having more dreams than ever and I can remember them more easily. Also lately in my dreams some parts of it are similar to what happened in real life.One day I was talking about spiders with my friends and in my dream there was a huge spider on a wall. Is having more dreams like this any sgn that I am getting closer to a obe?