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OMG I had a dream that Morgan Freeman was my guide too.  Like a week ago. Hilarious

Lol I randomly found this post lurking around Astral Pulse.

I just turned 25 a couple of months. I'm from New York.

I'm 4 months into Astral Projection. I started COMPLETELY from scratch. Didn't know what a chakra or an OBE was. I never even heard of a Lucid dream to be honest.

Since then I've projected about 7 times. I only left my room 3 of those times.

I really don't have anything beneficial to say. I just wanted to post before I'm kicked out of the club.   

Yohan

I did Yohan.  She was consumed by the sense of guilt she felt about some of the things that had happened in her life.  I experienced it as herself "locking herself in a place she couldn't get out of."  I was able to talk to her, and explain things differently to her, from the point of view of someone (one of many) who loved her deeply, and the good things she taught me.  Then I explained the nature of how (how I saw) God and the afterlife, the nature of what she was going through, and her ability to see differently and step away from where she was, so she could get help and input that wasn't created by her own guilt.  It took a long time (for me) but she was able to get out of there.  To verify that it really had taken, I had another experience (on another night) in which she told me something of significance, something I was able to verify about a year later- showing me that this was a 'real' experience and not entirely self created.

Wow this is amazing. Thanks for sharing! I'm getting a better understanding of how connecting with spirits works and things that they experience.

Yohan

I love this idea.   I got it from someone a while ago on another forum.    It is a great idea.    When you are in the astral you put love in your heart.   You say I want to see that person.    It works.   I treasure that idea.   

This is excellent. I will try this. It's so simple it seems like something I should have thought of already. I'm starting to realize how powerful the energy of love can be. Thanks!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pK1MKQTkrrU

time works differently for them, so they could have just died and it will seem like a second ago for them while it's half a year here.

Wow this guy is so condescending. I would have smacked the hell out of him in person lmao! But thanks so much for this link! This is EXACTLY what I'm going thru. I really like the information he is giving. This is something I need to hear as well because I haven't considered the time aspect. A month after my bf died a medium friend of mine connected to him. She said there were so many spirits trying to block her from communicating with him to protect him I guess. Maybe it was too soon. I did end up talking to him tho. One spirit told her not to talk to me before our reading. This is probably why. Thanks!

I have, but not immediately.  It took my dad about a year before I had any 'verifiably real' communication with him.  Then nothing for three years, and then it's been on and off.  I saw my grandmother slightly before (she was in a coma) and right after her passing- and then nothing for two years.  With my mom also slightly before and right after, and then nothing for at least three years.
With my grandma I had the opportunity to witness a process, but I actually didn't get to interact with her for months afterwards, and then only to do 'a retrieval'.
I find the contacting someone tricky at best- timing is everything.

Thanks for sharing! It does seem to be tricky the more experiences I hear of. So did you do a retrieval with your grandma? Do tell if you feel like it.

Thanks!

Yohan

I think you have to be in the right state to be receptive to them. And also I think there must be a real need. I always ask for my guide(s) to show up and they do, but only when I really need them. If it was up to me, I would have them all the time because they make me feel so good.

It's o.k. to want to meet them, I just think if you want it too much you may end up just producing them yourself. Would recommend you make your request known, but then let go of it and be patient, it may happen when you least expect it.  smiley

You are probably right. I've asked for my spirit guides as well and they haven't shown up. I would love for them to show me the way. I will work on being more patient.

I didn't go looking for mine, but they came to me. My first was my brother-in-law and he ended up being my mentor for a couple of months. Actually he was the one responsible for "showing me the ropes".

I believe that when you are ready to see them, they will be there for you. Sometimes when you are freshly mourning them, you think you are ready. But they know better! It's for your own good though.

He knows your intent already. He is just waiting until you can handle it. Your wound is still fresh and oh so deep!

Wow. It NEVER occurred to me that he might not think I'm ready. Never would have thought of that. It is still really fresh. We have been inseparable since high school. Thanks that seems accurate.

Before you project, you might try imagining him in your mind and heart.  See his eyes and smile, feel his essence--what makes him uniquely him.  It could work quickly or could take awhile.  When my cat passed, I saw and visited with her 4 or 5 times fairly quickly when she was on my mind and heart.  With my Dad, it took longer, and when I saw him I hadn't actually been thinking about him in quite a while.  I was snatched out of a random dream, became fully lucid, and was brought to my Dad for an emotional reunion.  Good luck!  It may happen when you least expect it. Smiley

Wow that's really cool! Thanks I will try this!

I've been projecting for 40 years and really never felt ready to try and reach a passed-over loved one. Some things I'm ready for and others I know I'm not;I generally recognise and am ok with that. I just didn't feel up to it at an intrinsic level.

My dad shot himself in 2010; I was fifteen minutes from picking him up, to take him for a medical checkup. He was 80 and deserved to go any way he chose to go, and he chose his own exit. But it crushed me.

Three months later, At the time, I was working (frustratingly) on recognizing portals when they might present themselves in the RTZ or the Astral and I had an event one night where I realized I was standing before a mirror.

Wow so sorry about that. That is heartbreaking. At least you got to see that he was ok, even for a short while. Thanks for sharing. I've tried to create a portal as well. Mine was a door with my bf's name on it. It just hasn't worked yet. But I will try again though.

You don't have to be astral projecting to see a loved one, look out for your loved ones in dreams and trust your gut. when you get that feeling that your loved one is around, they are. trust that. don't second guess your intuition.

Thanks I will! I've had lots of dreams about my bf but I was never lucid. I think you are right that when it is him in my dream I will know.

I really agree with the idea of using portals for this. I did that this morning. For the second time, I found and used my dad's house as a portal.

Oh that's a good idea. I'm going to try to use our old apartment which he loved as a portal. Thanks for sharing and keep trying!

Really really thank you guys for responding. I really appreciate you guys giving suggestions and sharing your experiences.

Thanks!

Yohan

Sorry if this has been asked already. I couldn't find the thread.

My bf died almost 5 months ago. In the last couple of months I've been able to project only like 5 or 6 times.

I look for my bf but I can't seem to find him. I've tried calling his name both verbally and non-verbally. I think a lot of times I may lose awareness a little because I end up talking to "people" who say they've seen him. I'm not sure if I'm just experiencing dream like scenarios. I feel like I'm going on a wild goose chase each time because I go from place to place.

Has anybody found a dead one love when Astral Traveling? How did you find them?

Thanks!

Yohan

Thanks for these Desert Rat!

Yohan

I'd like you say something about Erin Pavlina.

My bf died 4 months ago from a car accident. We were hit by an 18 wheeler. Since December I've been doing lots of research on AP to get back to him. I've just started to have some success within the last few weeks.

Erin Pavlina site was the first one I found when doing research.

Her site was so organized with lots of articles about her experiences. It really gave me a good place to start.

I read about the demons but that didn't phase me. I was way too desperate to get to my boyfriend to even care. I was just thinking that that demon will definitely have something coming for it if it tries to mess with me 

I bought her book on Kindle. She suggested in the book to go on blog sites and read other people's experiences.

At first I thought her book was all I really needed. I mean how hard can AP be right?  I needed more information about techniques so I did some more research. Best thing I could have done.

Now I see that this demon stuff is very subjective. She should definitely offer a disclaimer that these are her experiences and someone else's experience might be different. That stuff would really scare people out of it, even though she offers a solution with the white light sword method.

Her website really gave me lots of information and I used it to do my own digging. I wouldn't book a reading with her or anything I thank her for that.

Thanks!

Yohan

Where is the original post for this thread? I don't see it?