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Very useful and interesting ! Thankyou both, i will apply them protection methods and i feel less bad about it all now too . So happy i've got somewhere to ask all my questions 

Tweed. He freaked out a little bit when i asked who he was  i liked to ask alot of questions which is probabally how i ended up in this crazy world here . When i said i i know what its like to dream up what i want to happen, i meant when when i become aware that i'm dreaming i can control most things, i can make things appear, dissapear, go to places i want to go just by thinking it. And when i have sp and i see things i don't want too i can make them go away or something, but this thing was different. Or if i think about something before i go to bed and daydream it can happen when i dream. Is that normal?. I think it is :S

I have asked myself what it must all mean, and why some people dream like us and other people don't even seem to dream or don't recall it. I feel a bit sad for the people that haven't experienced anything like this 

 Thankyou very much, it is nice to be able to open up here and get sensible answers. I guess i shouldn't make assumptions then on what it was, but when i looked it up the 1st time it happened almost 2 years ago i stumbled on a site that swore it was evil and i was evil too for encouraging whatever it was and i had sinned i did not post a question but this is basically what it was saying so that made me feel quite bad even though the presence i felt wasn't really that scary and it didn't really hurt or threaten me like other things i have come across in this place so i thought, is it really that evil?
So what do you mean by get protection? i haven't got to put any strange object in my room or anything do i? because then my boyfriend will start asking questions 

Hello. This is kind of embarassing but i'm a bit puzzled. I regularly experience sp now and am quite used to it but i don't often come across other entities. This morning i was rudely awakened by one, a big heavy horny one forcing himself on me! i wasn't afraid but i kept pushing it and telling it to get off me, i could only see parts of it, it was a bit beastly so i kept my eyes shut and tried to wake up. I did wake up but then it kept coming back, and suddenly it wasn't so forceful and horrible, instead it was much gentle and loving and although i couldnt see it when i opened my eyes, i could feel everything,i touched its back, hair, nose, lips and it felt human. :s did it trick me? because to be honest in the end i didn't want it to leave which makes me feel kinda weird . I also asked who he was and it said i don't know him but i knew this hag ? don't ask i have no idea.  I should add that this kinda thing has happened before, very rarely and i sleep with my partner but this has only happened when he has left to go to work in the morning and i have gone back to sleep.
I know what its like to dream up what i want to happen but i've been ill this week and sex is the last thing on my mind so i don't think its just me . Any thoughts plz. I also feel guilty like i've cheated on my bf which is silly right ?

Thanku 4 listening

Thankyou yes both of them answers make good sense to me!
Happened again last night. Rolled out of bed and tried to walk downstairs but i kept floating upwards towards the ceiling, and  everytime i reach the door i wake up i think i get to excited

Hello everyone!

After experiencing these astral projections earlier this year for a brief period they suddenly stopped and i had them down as some kind of aid as i was suffering alot of anxiety at the time. I recovered and the AP's stopped (sadly) as they were quite extraordinary after i had got rid of the fear that comes with sleep paralysis.

Anyway recently i have been quite stressed as i have moved house and have started a new job just the other day, so i was lying in bed and i heard a voice say my name and told me not to be afraid, i realised i was in sleep paralysis and as its been so long it was a bit scary again and then something started pulling me again! like i described on last posts. I never leave my body willingly , i get pulled out and it made me jump and i woke up.I was A bit scared but then i told myself i can turn this around and i'm not going to let myself be afraid again so i went to sleep knowing it would happen again, and it did i felt that pull as soon as i began to drift off and i just went with it, i rolled out and sat up but everything was so fuzzy, i woke up again. Again i Went back to sleep and it happened again but this time i managed to roll out of the bed and make my way floating down the stairs again .

I'm hoping this is all happening again to help me out, what do you think? thanks for any info x

Thankyou for all the input guys , so its not just me then. I can relate to all the scary entity beings and stuff. I was so terrified when i first started having sleep paralysis, would try to stay awake all night to avoid it but that just made it worse. So weird to think it went from being the scariest thing i've ever experienced to something completely beautiful and peaceful. Guess it taught me a few lessons in my life i think i don't get so nervous about stuff now. I was suffering with pretty severe anxiety before all this started happening , and now i'm so care free i can't help but think i was being helped along a little bit. And interestingly i felt a few weeks ago that the sleep paralysis was returning, it was very brief but its a first in a while so maybe just coming bk to this site and talking about it is enough.

Hope to be back an able to share more experiences soon .

Thankyou all for your input.  i will defo have a look on the book recommendations x

Hi, i posted loads earlier this year on the sleep paralysis and obes i was having, i got very used to them, they happened all the time. They all started maybe august 2010 and continued through till Febuary ( i think ) sometimes i'd get them 3 to 4 times a night. Anyway they have stopped completely! nothing in my life has really changed.
When i started getting them i was very scared hence why i joined this site to get some reassurance and feel less alone and by the time i was having my last experiences they were something i'd look forward too , they were very peaceful and the very last one i had i came into contact with was what i thought was a guide and it was the nicest experience, but then after that it all kinda stopped.

Just wondering what they were there for, i didn't induce any of it , i was pulled into my 1st by some invisible force .
The only explanation i can think of is i was having a very bad time with life last summer i guess a little while before it started happening and i wasn't that happy at all and i'm much better now so maybe i was recieving some help.

If anyone has any ideas let me know, i don't mind that i don't have them anymore i just feel very lucky to of experienced what i did at all. I only have lucid dreams now which i know are similar but i am no longer aware of getting there like i was before .

Thanks peeps x

Its funny how you can get through some things and not others. On my first go i tried to float through a wall but i couldn't so instead i floated through the door :S THEN i tried to go out a window cuz i thought it would be cool to go outside, no luck. Then the font door was being stubborn. Now i can go out the front door all the time 

peanut butter lol love it.

And congrats! 

Hi Ivy. Welcome.
Don't worry about the nasty things you may see, i got strangled and felt awful things around me when i first started experiencing sleep paralysis, they can never really hurt you , just tell them to bugger off lol they soon get the message whatever they are. Once i got over that fear i started getting these obe's, the only difference is i didn't ask or try at all to have one, i was just dragged into this different reality ( literally ) Now thanks to the kind people on this site i don't feel so afraid or alone. In fact i feel extremely lucky.               
       So i can't say don't be afraid, as you will be , just say fcuk it and go with it anyway just like most things in life that is the only way forward, the fear will diminish more in time. XD X

Hi, i saw a few apps on my android phone. They are meant to help induce lucid dreams, i don't think i need the help but i will try it anyway cause there are alot of peeps trying to have them but are having trouble XD

i hear this all the time, cheese dreams lol apparently there really random

omg i watched that last week! i had no idea what it was about when my friend stuck it on. Thank God AP isn't like that for real :S that hag lady was creepy. 

yes i felt so safe  and it was so much nicer as i'm usually quite lonely and a bit fearful when i get these, i missed a few details out of my post but at one point we were kind of dancing and it was nice, such a change from my 1st two experiences, i was terrified! i can't wait till next time when i will be asking some questions . I am quite an anxious person in my waking life and i worry about so many things so i do feel like this is a positive thing for me, i feel very lucky to be having these experiences anyway.
And i forgot to add i had my 1st ap at my mums house! B4 i had always had them at my boyfriends and was beginning to think it was haunted XD

And in reply to sikwilly ( whats with the name lol) i don't know why my bf was attacking me , we have a great relasionship but i always have nightmares of him trying to hurt me :C maybe thats my anxieties again. I think when you get the sleep paralysis ( i used to have it all the time b4 the obes started) i would always see horrible things like all my fears were coming to life, so it was kind of like i was being rescued from it this time as this force just pulled me away from him and then took my hands. I used to think sleep paralysis was evil like demons or something and when i first looked it up on the net there was so many horrible things confirming what i felt. I'm so glad i'm wiser for it now .

And the 4th time it was quite funny cause i floated up again and cud sense that the same person was there, i had a feeling they were young and just wanted me to play, i could talk as well and i just said ' not again, what are you gonna show me now? i'm tired' but i got up tiredly and wondered down the stairs, i can use my feet now! again the footsteps followed me, i went out to the street where i felt i had to go and looked at the town around me, i stood and stared at everything and i knew this was not how the street usually looked and then i stared at a building for a little while and said to myself that i can change this building into anything i want, i then stared at it and it turned into a church slowly, i was so proud of myself and i said to my invisible friend yay i made it into a church, come on , lets go inside. Lol i started running but then my alarm went off again . :S

Sorry if i went on just needed to share as it was quite amazing and i can't talk about it to anyone . So this presense must be a guise right. I think its a girl cuz the hands were so sof and gentle. I never once saw her though.

Hi, few people have mentioned i have a an astral guide as my 1st 2 obes's i got dragged out of bed like someone was pulling me. Well these obe's are very regular now except i don't get pulled out anymore i just kinda force myself out usually float above myself or pull myself out and land on the floor lol, the fear has dissapeared completely. Anyway 2 nights ago i had 4 in one night ( obe's that is) in the 1st one i saw my bf and he was tryna attack me i was scared but i knew it was just me having sum hallucination but i still tried to hug him anyway to stop him attacking me but when i did that something invisible pulled me back and took my hands, they were the softest gentlest hands i've ever felt, so my attacking bf dissapeared. the hands guided me out the room and then i started asking questions like what am i suppose to do here etc, but i got no reply so i went outside and i could hear footsteps following me everywhere i went. It was warm outside but windy and i just floated around in the coartyard outside the house then, i was really happy and felt so at peace then my hands were took again and guided out to the street where i witnessed a funeral and a man was sitting crying with i suppose his family and i went over there and hel his hand even though he couldn't see me, then my alarm clock took me back to my bed.
Happened 3 more times that night, the 2 nd time i just went downstairs and tried to find something i could pick up so when i awake i'd see if i had it on me, i picked up my bf's daughters pink toy but it was never in my hand when i woke up :S
3rd trip i went outside again and that was it.

I looked in big mirror outside the bedroom on my second experience. I looked like wendy out of peterpan floating in the air kicking my legs and feet trying to stop myself floating up to the ceiling by holding on the bannister. I was in my p. jams and looked like my reflection but in the background i could also see me standing in front of the mirror in my dungarees ?( only my legs tho, didn't look up further for some reason)  so i saw 2 me's. ? 

  Thankyou, and thankful i found this forum. x

Just wanted to thank the people that told me not to be scared
Last night about 2 in the morning i was lying awake but quite tired when i started getting the sleep paralysis , was the 1st time it happened while i was really awake, i guess thats what happens in meditation. Anyway i got scared, it was dark and i didn't want to go floating round the house in the dark lol . Then i lie awake for the next 4 hours! too scared to go back to sleep but then i thought about this forum and i remembered all the things people told me about breaking that fear so i let myself fall back asleep and of course it happened again and this time i just kinda popped out my body and i looked back at myself sleeping and i was smiling i was soo excited i wasn't scared anymore so i went on the usual floaty trip around the house, did some exploring and when i got to the back door i went through it! and stood outside ! which is big for me if you have read my other posts, usually i can't leave the house! i just stood there listening to the birds as it was early morning time. so dead happy .

I feel like everytime i have an experience i go a little further and like i'm being taught something in steps . Oh and before that first sp last night i knew it was going to happen about 10 minutes before, i just had a feeling it was going to be one of them nights... weird :S

Thanks again xxx

No there is no noises at all. My boyfriend has never experienced anything out of the ordinary in the house . These experiences all happen when my bf leaves to go to work in the morning and i go back to sleep. The house is new so no ones died there but it was built on a nunery :S 

Thanku for replying , i wasn't sure whether you meant the place i was in the dream was haunted because i saw people there. x

Sorry i don't understand     wheres haunted? my boyfriends house.

Hello, i posted twice before . I had what seems to be obe's. Twice at my boyfriends house.

Anyway last night i had another one i think but it was different. The last 2 times i felt pulled out of my body where i then floated around the room and house a little bit but this one started off as an ordinary dream .

I had the dream at my boyfiends AGAIN!

So i was having a dream , then i became aware i was in the dream and  i was lying in my bed at my mums house ( i sleep here 3 TIMES a week) but the furniture was all in a different place than it is now :S so the first thing i thought of was to try and leave my body, it took some effort but i did, i slid out the bed onto the floor then floated up and although my vision was blurry i could see myself lying asleep on the bed, i was scared but i was in control this time so i was ok, i pulled myself to the bedroom door trying to get my feet on the ground because i always float upwards, then went downstairs where the front door is, i went to reach the handle but then i heard voices in the kitchen. So i went through the living room to the kitchen to see my mum standing there talking to 2 ladies i don't recognise i tried to talk to them and the 2 ladies looked around but couldn't see me, i felt like a ghost, i could here them but my words were coming out so slow and muffled. I went to leave but then decided to go back i really felt like i wanted mum to know it was me. The ladies were looking in my direction and my mum couldn't hear anything. I tried to talk to them, they were trying to make out what i was saying . I was saying tell my mum its kelly. I tried to pick up a pen from the table but my hand went straight through it. I then became aware of that buzzing in my ear that i get when i had the previous obe's and i awoke in my bed at my boyfriends.


So that was very different from my last two if you read them. Any explanations would be appreciated thankyou xx

I haven't been on this site very long, the reason i fell apon this site is i was terrified after my first experience and i needed to talk to somebody who has had a similar experience. So i googled and found this and thank god i did as i'm not afraid anymore. I don't think these people are ill at all. I'm not sure who you are but what is the reason you are here ?