I am a wiccan/pagan I have been one for about 18yrs. I am a man also. I find that unfortunately on an average most wiccan groups are more goddess oriented(sp) this I think is partly due to the fact that most wiccans are women, and relate more with the goddess than the god. I myself relate better with the god, but find that it is good to commune with my feminine(sp) side through the goddess. This is my first post @ astralpulse. I am part of the founding group of a wiccan "church" in Oregon. If anyone want the male perspective I can help. I don't know how often I will be checking in here though.