Being in Love

[jilola]

Just love the person nonetheless and understand that the fact that you love is enough. Be a friend, keep confidence and extend your compassion and love to that person without the expectation of any return.

It hurts at first but once you reach a certain realization you'll find the pain worth bearing.

2cents & L&l
Jouni

[Blissful]

What do you get when you hurt from Love:  GROWTH!

As for feeling hurt right now, just realize that THIS TOO SHALL PASS!

TRUST ME!

Blissful

[Kazbadan]

My rational brain is saying the same, but my emotional spirit says the opposite.

My luck is that it is summer time and the opens fresh air and the sun makes me happy! Besides that, i will not give up []. At least i will try something with her. I will give fight!

But that doesn´t mean that i will be romantic! No, i think that womens dont´like wussy guys that are always giving everything to them and are allways begging for love! That it will blow up everything.

I think that is better to act a litlle like if i was not interested at all (wihtout exagerating).

What do you think about this idea?

[Hannah b]

I don't know how much harm you have already done;))j kidding...
but if she's interested in you in any way, dissapearing for a while...(3-4 days...emm...maybe a week) is a good idea. Once in a while don't return her calls.....what am I saying...you know what is the best idea if you did it all and nothing works??
tell haer what you want from her and then dissapear.
she'll have time o make up her mind..(she might be in a shock...a good one;))..
don't forget to set up a way in which she can tell you yes or no...
because she might be shy and you will never know...

Good luck!!!!
ps.this is idiotic...were talking about love and I'm giving you instructions how to make her chemistry work...I really don't understand some things in life;)

[Kazbadan]

Thanks for the tips! it´s more or less as i was thinking.

[kiauma]

A good book is Don Miguel Ruiz' The Mastery of Love.

[weetabix]

quote:Originally posted by Kazbadan

But that doesn´t mean that i will be romantic! No, i think that womens dont´like wussy guys that are always giving everything to them and are allways begging for love! That it will blow up everything.

I think that is better to act a litlle like if i was not interested at all (wihtout exagerating).

Hey !

Have you read David DeAngelo's eBook !?  It sound just like his hints... Best ones I think !  For sure love is powerfull, I spent 3 years trying to forget a girl that haven't really been my girlfriend... [xx(]  I probably skiped some "recovery" stages []

-Weeta

[Kazbadan]

Being in love is #$#&$!! We love someone and do not get any response! We love someone that doesn´t love us (not for her guilt..she just don´t love us) and that hurts like fire!

Love is strange, sometimes we are strong like whirlwinds, but sometimes we are just weaker than a little puppy!

What can we do?