timeless
you can see my reply on the "call to order" forum.
Dear neg removal5,
You are reacting and rationalizing.
Is your reaction and rationalization helping?
Are you growing spiritually from it?
Are you helping others with it?
We can only change ourselves not others. Look within and forget trying to teach everyone around you a lesson. My suggestion is let go and Live and Let Live. The forces against you vanish when you stop forcing. I do not know you but for some reason it is easy to push your buttons and you return the favour full force. Past baggage is usually responsible for this behaviour. Pushing buttons eventually will lead to an explosion and we accomplish nothing but a big mess -- so why do it? The bigger person ends it with silence, if resolution is not possible. The bigger person looks within to find the source within self not worrying about anyone elses opinion.
Who cares who starts what -- I don't. I see tremendous pain in your words. Unfortunately I cannot help you. Only you can help you.
Regards,
timeless