I like to know about the big things that move people. What makes you live, which are your objectives, the things you want in your life. I just like to know more about people and about human mind, so i ask you:
Wich are you main objectives/dreams/whatever in your life? What do you pretend to do? Why? You can speak about your objectives in middle term and in long term.
Ok, about me:
1- I dont have objectives at all and i dont feel uncofortable with that. Except to one thing: i want to experiment and live the Nirvana. I want to reach that state or, at least, a state of peace in my mind. I am reaching that and learning how to do it. Indeed, such state can really change my life...i can tell that for my experience.
2- If i do not reach that or, while i do not reach that, i dont care with anything more in my life. I am a dancing flame. I want to live my own energy. I dont know how to translate this to english, but i feel energy and i feel beauty in the world, and i just want breath it. I am doing that.
3- Middle term objectives or selfish objectives:
a)i wanna learn many things like Tk (is that real?), obes, etc...
b) I wanna have some "normal" pleasures: pratice physical exercise, play PC, read, ride in my bike, play paintball, try parashuts, be with firends, get drunk with friends :-), go at disco, etc
c) Womens&Sex: dont need to say more : - )
I dont want to have (as a big objective) a normal familiar life. I like to be alone (with a fixed girlfriend or wife). I just want to experiment new things and be "dancing" with life. I mean, when i look to my friends with wives, son, etc, i feel that such kind of life its soooo boring! I my actual life style: lovers are better than girlfriends! Its more funny ; - )
I feel confortable with this kind of life and i like it, but many friends and people that i know, speaks in a manner to me that suggests (or they say it directly) that have a "normal" fixed life, have a son, a wife etc its much better and they want that as a big objective for life. Whats wrong with them? They follow their path and i follow my own one. Is there anything wrong in this my lifestyle?! I think not, honestly.
Ok, stop talking about me. Now that you read my ideas, i wanna hear yours.
BTW. i am a realised man: in the last here FCPorto, my soccer club was the best of the world, for the second time in the club history ehehe ; - ) (altought this year they are very weak).
If I told you my objective, I'd have to kill you.
loool! ok Beavis, dont say it ´cause i wanna live a few more years : - )
to acquire knowledge
theres lots of knowledge in the dirt on you floor. You could count the number of crumbs of dirt per square inch or test how many rats out of 10 will taste it. Or did you mean some specific kind of knowledge?
if my objective was to prevent your death, i'd be in some trouble if i told you
Quote from: beavistheres lots of knowledge in the dirt on you floor. You could count the number of crumbs of dirt per square inch or test how many rats out of 10 will taste it. Or did you mean some specific kind of knowledge?
all fields.
jack of all trades
master of none
ah
master comes with time,i don't intend on spending only this lifetime learning.
sleep time
I want to live fully. I want to overcome my fears and live life as much of a real HUMAN BEING as possible. Society robs us of our humanity, makes us ashamed of our human nature. I want to live life as fully myself as I can. You should read Sexus by Henry Miller, it's pure philosophy to me.
2-3hrs of energy training most days-and I still don't have an objective as to why. I just like doing it. Oh well :-), I'm glad it's not obligatory to have a purpose because I'd flunk that one.
I wanna see more answers and more well explained answers because until now you are being too brief.
I wanna now more about people in general, about you, its that the reason that makes me ask for more questions (and with more details).
thanks
I have too many goals in life. Since I am a teen, you can just imagine lol. All that superstar, acting, wealthiest man in world. Types of things like those used to inspire me and motivate me lol, and they still do at times. (Just imagine being the richest person in the world! Imagine yourself in your "perfect" life. Where are you? What are you doing? What car are you driving? Who are you with? etc.) That motivates me allot. But I also have other small goals that are easier to be a success in. One was to have a successful OBE, which I have not done yet. That is all I have for this year so far... OBE's. I set that goal last week seeing that is when I first learned about them.
A couple years ago, my main objective in my life and I thought my primary reason for existing was to make it through this life without taking a 10 guage shotgun to my head. My primary gripe with life is the fact that it's so difficult to make things happen that you want to happen. When you start living your life to make other people happy, your own happiness dwindles. I often say to my wife. "None of my life is what I want, so what is the point of existing?"
Well I'm not going to go off on suicide. I wont do it. I don't have the balls and I have a daughter who is 8 and I traumatized her enough by leaving her mother, 4 years ago.
However my goals. My main goal right now is to try to maintain the income I have now, without having anything to do with corporate America. I'm tired of working around technology and lifeless people that call themselves human beings, their primary purpose on Earth is to feed the corporate machine, contributing to humanities demise. I'm not kidding about that either. I believe that some people on this planet right now are a form of artificial intelligence and aren't real. If you start to advance yourself enough spiritually, you'll see what I mean. I'm not joking either.
Now as far as all this creative visualization stuff. It's crap I think. Just because some guy or woman struck it rich and then figured out that it was because they set a goal, then achieved it and somehow managed to extract 400 pages of spiritual mumbo jumbo to make a book, well that doesn't help me one bit to manifest my desires. You simply can not ask the universe for a million dollars and sit and wait and meditate on it. THIS IS EARTH FOLKS, IT'S NOT GONNA HAPPEN.
So I've given up on that. The only way to get things in life is to create a goal, plan and do small things, little by little to make it happen. If you jump in too quick, you fail. That's my problem. All or nothing, and mostly, I'm at the nothing end of the spectrum, because all means failure and a core belief, instilled in me since my inception from my father was fear of failure. It will not go away. It's there, for me to deal with, forever.
So, I don't go out on a limb and try things. I would love to own my own business, work for myself and have NOT A SINGLE SOUL tell me what to do or when I have to get up out of bed.
Sorry for the rant. If if was to say what my primary goals are it would be.
1. Self sufficiency without reliance on evil corporate America
2. TIME DAMMIT. I want time. Two hours per evening to do what I want is not a life folks and that's what make a 20g deer slug look very attractive to me. I'll leave it at that.
Kevin (disgruntled)
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Let me guess, it costs $5000 to get started and they'll send you a video and your on your own. Sorry to sound negative. I've asked them to contact me and prove me wrong. I'm not an idiot though.
Kevin
my main goal at life is to become at peace with myself and meditate in my peacefulness til death
I just want to spiral out of this hell earth.
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Ahh! Now i am seing more posts!
I think its interesting to hear about others people objectives and desires.
I really like to know more about human spirit.
Knucklebrain, all that you want its a own business, and time for you? What is wrong your actual job? I ask thised questions because i dont know how its reality in USA.
Manuel, in other words, do you want to reach Nirvana (whatever u wanna call it)? What have you reached until now? Do you think that meditation it makes a huge different in your life?
My reason for these questions its related with the fact that some of my objectives (maybe the first one) it is equal to that one. btw, how much do you meditate in each day, how much its necessary to see a difference?
thanks and keep going, tell us more about you, dont be shy and post a little more about your life.
Ok, you asked to post about my life. Well imagine living a life that is now your life. You visualize the life you want, but the life you actually live is nothing of the sort. I wake up in complete utter misery 5 days a week. I spend 1 hour in the car to get to a miserable job as a DBA where is sit and ROT in a chair for 9 hours a day. Then I spend 1 hour in my car to go home and I get 2 whopping hours of MY_TIME before it's time to get up and do the 11 hours of misery again. SOUNDS LIKE FUN HA? This is the American dream though. To be strapped down by a mortgage and to live for work. I don't want to hear about how bad off other folks are and they'd kill to be in my position, caus I really don't care. This is ME, I'm in misery. I hate this country. As far as I'm concerned, the USA sucks. The government poisons the population with drugs they don't need. They put fluoride in the water to kill us because they have no other place to dump the shat. The food over here is DEAD. The society is DEAD. I can't wait for it to end. Really. I'm about done with all this spirituality stuff. It doesn't seem to help. Nothing changes. I meditate, day in, day out. Nothing helps. All because I have to work. I hate work, plain and simple. I am not supposed to be here on this planet. I know this. I feel this in my heart. Everything about Earth disgusts me. We are no more advanced than the people that lived in the stone age. We are worse off.
You asked, there it is.
Kevin
I just asked for curiosity, not with the intention to hurt you. Sorry.
I feel bad to hear about your sad life.
No worries chief, it will be over before I know it.
Knuckle, i hope you dont be thinking on doing something bad to yourself...just think on the hotties outhere waiting for you ;-)
To tell the truth I'm not quite sure what i want. Still a teen but i cant seem to stick with any one idea. I guess I'm going to just keep floating around until I find out what I really want to accomplish in life. The only thing I AM sure of is that i want to go places. I want to see the world heh :lol:
Quote from: MajorTomOf course, it should come as no surprise to anyone that Kazbadan's love of life is located between his legs.
:P
looool!!! :D :D
"Thanks" Major, for the good image that you are giving to people about me ;-) :D
Quote from: KazbadanKnuckle, i hope you dont be thinking on doing something bad to yourself...just think on the hotties outhere waiting for you ;-)
Hotties will not help me my friend. I do not seek plankton eating bottom feeders for women. I need a woman that can help me with my hate and misery. It's getting worse and worse. I thought I was out of the hole, evidently not. I need some serious help. I've been to probably 20 shrinks in my life. I've been on all the life robbing meds. I am not fit for this planet.
I was in a dpressive state for years too.
The solution, in general lines, passed by changing my mind and view the world with different eyes. Spiritutality it was of great help too but i know that in the future this help (its starting yet) it will be even better.
btw, about the hotties i was kidding. I am happy, filled with energy and i dont feel any need for a girlfriend. Sometimes, wheni am really lucid and with an awakening mind, i see how useless its to have one. Its garbage for the mind.
Of course that when i am very tired or depressive (very rare the last one) i can think on having a fix girlfriend.
Budhism was of a great help for me.
Inyour case, maybe you should start finding a profissional help (psychiatrique doctor, something like).
When i was down, the only help i could get was from mysefl and i could act only in the days that, by any chance, i would awake happy.
In such days i would do something good for my future in order to get out from the depressive state.
It was a very difficult task and it was at little time that i got out from it (last year).
Hope these guidelines can help in some manner.
Thanks chief. I've seen about 20 psychologists. They can't fix you. Nobody can fix you but you. I'm referring to me however. They are people, not Christ. They offer advice and push pills. No better than your family guesser (doctor)
I'm just odd in the hottie respect. Sex doesn't do much for me.
Kevin