Vacation Over

[Nay]

Hi Ybom!  Glad you dropped back in []

I find that when I am around people that are always negative and sad..ect.ect.. It brings me down.[V] almost like it drains me mentally.

I visualize being surrounded with mirrors in a perfect seamless circle, and they face outward.  Has worked great for me of late. []

As for people saying Delusion of Grandeur..well, me personally, I would smile the biggest smile and say, "and your point, IS?"

Nay []

[cainam_nazier]

1.  I could be them or it could be you.  You need to look at what you get emotional over and try to figure out the why's from that side.  Break down as many of the times as you can into individual parts to see what exactly it was that was bothering you.  Was it the person, the action, or the result?

2.  It was all the extra emotional baggage.  


3. I'm not delusional I'm psychotic...There's a differance.

[Ybom]

Yep I see it now. I just wasn't looking at the right perspective. I guess the combination of my dad coming up with new schemes to use me in his life to his and only his benefit, combined with my mom's pure concern with me all the time could have that type of impact even if I'm personally trying to ignore it. So next time I'm gonna say to them "Hey! Save some of that energy there for us fishes!" Moo

Anyways thanks both...everyone ready for Turkey Day now?

[Ybom]

I work away from home and recently went back to visit for a bit, and some questions came up during that period that I'm boggled by (I'm also saying Hi to everyone!)

1. I get more emotional there, almost uncontrollable (not a good emotional either)
2. I had a lot of trouble relaxing and meditating properly
3. A more general question: If people address what I want as "Delusions of Grandeur" or something similar, what exactly should I say in reply back?

The last one isn't as important, since I could just tell them to you know what. I'm just concerned since I'm going to have to go back and deal with those "energy problems" sooner or later again and need a way around it. Any ideas or solutions?