Art of Emotion: approaching yourself

[Ybom]

*warning* Let me get 1 thing out of the way before I go further. This is not a guide on how to be homosexual or bisexual, as many have been raised to believe are the only ways to become an emotional and in touch with your inner side maleness. If you believe that, please PM me so you can stop making fun of me behind my back. *warning*

You see, I am tired of this other thread poking its head out and showing 1 side as to how to have all this fun as a male. Did you know that us emotional males (and females too!) with no hope of becoming alpha-oriented possibly need guidance as well?

This thread was also created to post discussion on to some common problems behind being this way, and also why it's so awesome.

Problems:
The only real problems I see relationship-wise are possible conflicts with your parents, a monogamistic relationship with someone, and few friends (will get more to it in the awesomeness). I'm also having a small problem with procrastination. Other than that things are pretty much a double edged-sword with a more blunt side facing you.


Awesomeness:
The monogamistic relationship is there for a reason, because it is most likely your absolute best friend soul mate kinda thing as your alter-ego. I'm 23 and I've found her (amazing huh?) and I know there are others out there like her. The few friends problem is because you have a few really good friends and you're pretty much able to discern who'd be a good friend or not after about a day or so (unless they're the con-artist type, good luck against those people). The parental problem is probably because in their alpha-ness they're totally confuddled by how you act; I'm lucky my mom isn't like this, and that my dad really is like this (so he undersands) even though he can't get past his alpha stage. And for you alpha-guys out there: most friends you will have will be females (hint hint).

Now as far as other things go: After so long, you develop a patience you can turn on and off like the flip of a switch (very valuable, but sometimes mine likes to flick itself on or off hehe). This allows you to not worry about a lot of things that would get on other people's nerves, which could save your life or your job or a variety of other things. Another thing is the respect you gain from a lot of people as for not dwelling on how people look, but how they think and feel. This also leads to empath abilities in most cases, and you can almost smell if someone is having a bad day across the room. You also deveop much of your latent artistic skills like this, which i have. You may run across the occasional new alpha male that calls you a variety of names including "grump" or "weakling"; but with your patience and other skills you get him to go away in a bout of anger (and denial), to break down and cry, or to change to the dark side.

Some other things you should really know: I am a very good athelete, so don't take my physical ability into account here. About the only thing I can't do well physically is lift heavy objects or do weight training (this is pretty much due to no desire for that type of thing; why try when there's the latent ability to tk available?).

With that said as somewhat of a basic background to many things involving an emotional state of mind, does anyone else have some comments?