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[Kazbadan]

Good point Manuel!

Radical female movements it´s something that i dont like.

It´s ok to say that in some countrys dont have the sime rights, that they are treated like wild animals,etc,etc, but one fact is that femal movements seems that they wanna create a world without men. I remember a movie with female movements using this quote: "Women needs man like fish needs bycicle". No one is saying that i want women falling at men feet, but the way they say that means something: "We dont like men...go away".

Another thing really, really annoys me very much it is this: why the hell should i go to the war (in the case of a war in Portugal). Why me and my male friends, normal guys that dont want a military life and only want peace? Why us, men, fighting do death for a country? Why women will stay home happy and us being dying out there?


You can say: "Oh, would you like to see you women dying?", no but it seems that she wants to see me die...Besides that  women are not very comprehensive to men: i know many men (including on my family, but i will not specify) that were in war (in Portugal in 60-70s there were conflicts in African countrys, that were part of Portugal). That men come back with man mental problems and at minimal threat they will react with violence. That same men have problems with their wifes that see them as stupid guys! F***, why do they say that? Were they the ones seeing there friends exploding with grenades (yes thats true)? No, but they "dont uderstand how they act like this" and they dont care and the solution it is simple:

instead of caring about the problem and take their hubs to a psychologist, they will "cheat" them (true too, believe me). Beautiful.

I think that there is a little problem with many women these days: if they are poor or live in machist countrys they have no rights and no life (thats bad of course) but in the moment that they acquire rights and independence, they will only care about themselves, no matter what they say.

At least here in Portugal i can observe that: or the women have no rights (in poor familys) or they have it and are egoistic. Of course that there are many "normal" women, but a great part of them are like i say.

I know many women (girlfriends of friends of mine) that have no sense of friendship or real love. I see their mates giving everything to her, but if he fails in a little detail women will burn up  them. When in my group of friends there is a problem, its always a women starting it, and for stupid and egoistic reasons, and she will act like a snake...


Another thing that annoys me to much about women: i personally know very very well, some cases of domestic violence in wich men beats women. Do you know who is the greatest victim of the case: the women and only she. She will complain about everything and only look act herself as the only victim, but no one (even herself) will see the real victims: the childs.

Childs will be used as toys for "mom" and "daddy" and no one will care about them (in the cases that i know...). And thei are bigger victims because, differently from the mother, they are devoping their personality that will be affected biggly.

But what it is worst its that when they grow up (now they are young adults) they will hate their parents for many reasons(you dont imagine the "games" and bad things that they suffered) and other people will say: "Oh, they are so bad to their parents,etc,etc". They will be seen as the evil guys without any one understanding their feelings and without caring about it!! It´s horrible, because women are the victims (and they are) but what about childs? Worst than that, the official victims (women) will not care about childs, because in the cases that i know, they ran away from home and their hubs and did zero (0, nothing, nada) for helping their sons, instead leaving them with their father (the author of violence, and he his violent because he went in a war only for men.....).

Sorry about this complain, but i just wanna show that manny times women can be more evil than we see. If women are angels, like many poetrys says, what are men? Demons?

So, basically i want to show that often women will complain every men in the world like the guiltys of their own condition. I know women that thinks that, that just for the mere fact of me (and my friends) be a men, means that i am a bastard and a beast. I want to change that view. Not every men it is violent, and if they are, maybe thats because their moms ran away without them in the past, without caring about them, leaving them with the demons....now they are monsters and no one will look at them...

[Naiad780]

Wow, Kazbadan, sounds like you're running into the wrong kind of women.  Don't worry, there are many women out there who don't think men are demons.  I don't!  Well, no more than I think women are demons, too.  When it comes to demons, I am egalitarian

Obviously you have had bad experiences, so I hope you can learn from them and stay away from the women AND men who don't meet basic standards of kindness and courtesy.  My only suggestion is don't lump all of one gender into one bad category, or you won't notice a good woman when you find one because you'll already be convinced she is bad.

Good luck,

kj

[Kazbadan]

Oh, no!! Dont worry![]

My point is to say that women are not the Godess that people say (be it women herself or men).

I like women of course and i have good female friends, but i know a good quantity of women that are really....well i dont wanna say the word [].

I wanted to say too that sometimes i will see women crying for stupid reasons, egoistic reasons without caring about others, when in fact they just want more attention than they have.

[Naiad780]

Yes, I think that there's an annoying, egotistical type of *person* in general, regardless of gender, and I stay far away from that type of person.  Who needs it, right?

[Jenia_San]

Kazbadan,I can't help but agree with most...
but where I live,at least,(almost)EVRYONE is like that [}:)]
the males are "demons" but woman are "demons" as much as males are [}:)]
everyone is always against everyone...
but where I live is another story!
my point is...
all males are as good/bad as females are from what I saw.

[thinker]

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[Reality]

quote:Originally posted by thinker

here is something that has helped me to understand women alot better http://www.doubleyourdatingprogram.com the email newsletter is free so i suggest starting with that

Yeah, I read his material too. It sure puts some loose ends together about women/men interaction.

The main message is that 'clingy 'NICE(as a way to manipulate)' guys' are thrown to the wayside, and his solution is to start acting cocky/funny.

I don't advocate being Cocky though. I rather call it, carefree and funny...[]

[Kazbadan]

DavidDeAngelo. It seems that everybody knows him, and thats bad because if everypeople knows his secrets, there will exist more guys knowing how to "conquer" a girl...and thats bad...  

I act like a cocky-fun guy to the girls that i know, and i have better results than never.

[manuel]

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