People come into your life

[runlola]

[OrionsDream]

That makes oh too much sense, but i have a question.

I can think of 2 people.
1) He was brought into my life for a year to introduce me to everything hidden from the mass public as a routine. He was an incredible person, but because I switched schools, he is no longer in as much contact. I have his email, and i have periodically emailed him, but there seems like not a lot more he can do, unless it is like old times. What should I do? (This was not another student, but an adult). Keep in touch through email? I suppose so.. It would be very hard to meet him until i get a drivers license, and my parents, the little they knew of him shut up out and swallowed the key bc they thought he was a 'whacko'.


And the other was less of an impact, but still did one act that set me up. This act was to introduce me to the online interent forums and that kind of thing, like astral pulse itself.
But he has out-lived his reason for being near me, or so it seems. It has become more that I am helping HIM and having to put up with his ignorance sometimes. It would be very hard to just drop him like a rock, but I'm not gaining much out of this relationship anymore, in fact i give a lot of my time to him, and a lot of the time it seems like even tho he seems to accept my advice/help, he never really puts it to use.. *usually doesnt*. . What is your opinion on this runlola, both people? or any1 who would like to comment...

[OrionsDream]

Yeah thats true, nice quote, i just wish i had NOT switched schools.. u c i didnt have many friends there, and a lot of ppl just teased me to a horrible extent for absolutely no reason, except for the fact that if some1 punched me, i would not punch back no matter what, frankly bc i was afraid i would hurt them, which seems sort of silly, but i didnt want to.
So, i switched schools, and i have a great new one, with lots of friends and almost no teasing at all, its great... excpet that i dont have that man who used to help me.. and i wonder if i made the right decesion.. but your right i suppose.

as for the second, i'm not sure if i'm really becomed friends with this guy. i mean over the lst weeks its seemed that way.. so maybe i'll keep in touch for a while until things seem to detiorate. he gives me links sometimes to what i want.. and i help him...
I certaintly do have a choice.. so... well i'll have to really think on it.

but thanks so much for the advice..

[paint1]

Friendships and acquaintences are not always about what you can get out of it; sometimes you have to be the giver.

[OrionsDream]

Yeah that makes sense. But the problem is I'm giving, but i dont really know if he is using most of what I give.

As many are, he is a very prideful person, and the thought of ME helping HIM sort of 'raises shields'. Closes his mind because when I first met him, he thought that HE was helping ME.

[paint1]

People who are to proud to be helped, usually can't be. As I'm not a very sympathetic person; I'd say stop wasting your time & move on.