no common sense

[urshebear]

Sometimes I hate my personality so much.
I am clumsy, forgetful and have next to no common sense when it comes to waking life. I am constantly in a dream world and often cut myself off from reality, I sometimes get frustrated and angry when people ask me questions or try and talk to me when I am busy thinking. I am messy and socially awkward. I am shy because I am embarrassed of my awkwardness. When I do get close with people and open up I often walk away from social situations hating myself because of what they must think of me.
Everyone else seems so "on the ball" compared to me. I struggle with common sense at work too and always feel like I am crap at every job I do because of it.
Having a bad day today, feeling really sad that I cant be like normal people

[Lionheart]

 Okay now that you know your faults, how about listing all of your strengths! 

[phaseshiftR1111]

ahh normal is boring! I know the feeling though... i don't fit in with society anymore. at all. i have been really lonely but i know i am anything but that!

[Szaxx]

Tell you what, you've got guts to say this. That makes you a far better person than most.
If you think these are your faults then think again. They are only feelings that you have about what you THINK you should be.
At least you're not one of those who must have a little dog covered in diamonds in a $2000 handbag.

See, you're really ok.

[PlasmaAstralProjection]

I use to be kind of like you bear, we all deal with this type of stuff in one way or another. Don't beat yourself up. If you were ever abused or beaten or even just had corporeal punishment as a kid then that might have something to do with it, and this effect can even be exaggerated in kids with mental hindrances. IDK if that describes you at all, but we all deal with similar things. So like lionheart said go and list some of your qualities and focus on those more.

Am a little weird too, but am also very unique, and smart in my own way.

Good luck.

[soarin12]

I agree with Phaseshift.  Being normal is boring and over rated.  I don't fit in with normal people and I used to beat myself up over it.  Over time I learned to love myself and have discovered my unique abilities and strengths.  You have something special to bring to the world. Whether that's big or small, it doesn't matter.  None of us should waste another minute trying to fit in!

[Astralsuzy]

We all have faults.    I am also in a dream world.   I do not like that.   I am clumsy and can be awkward with people.    I also have a lot of good qualities and I think you have as well. If you were that bad you would not have a job.    Try to like yourself and think good things about yourself.    If you do that, you will be a lot happier.    Try to accept the way you are and if you do not like something about yourself try to change it.    I used to hate myself.    I realised I was a good person and I am sure you are as well.   

[AJDIN]

Learn to love yourself, that's it... how do you expect others to love you if you can't do it yourself?